-- Posted by ViLE at 3:36 pm on July 10, 2009 Gahh I dont like long stories so i'll try to make this short. I'm dating this guy that claims he likes me alot. The feeling is mutual because we have sooo much in common. We agreed we would even end it when we both go off to college cause we r both rational thinkers. However, it seems all we do is have sex cause we cant hang out during day time cause of his work and our families don't want us together (we are of different races). we were joking around one day and i brought up being sex buddies and he agreed. It really hurt me cause i like him but it seems like he doesn't want any strings. It's ironic cause usually i dont want any strings but he led me to believe otherwise with his actions. I'm SOO confused! -- Posted by Uptown Swag at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 Do you want strings? If so, tell the guy. The major problem in relationships is that no one ever says how they are feelings. They expect the other person to be a mind reader. That's not how it works. I can't guarantee he will agree, because he most likely wont. But its better to be heartbroken with dignity than a sex buddy wanting more. -- Posted by ViLE at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Mods1Blow2Me3Daily at 3:37 pm on July 10, 2009 BULLSHIT. YOU'RE JUST LAME. yeah i'm lame -- Posted by belizabeth at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 That is just how some guys are. Maybe he did not mean to lead you to believe there was more to it than just sex. Sit down and talk to him that may help some. -- Posted by ViLE at 3:40 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Rabgix at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 Do you want strings? If so, tell the guy. The major problem in relationships is that no one ever says how they are feelings. They expect the other person to be a mind reader. That's not how it works. I can't guarantee he will agree, because he most likely wont. But its better to be heartbroken with dignity than a sex buddy wanting more. I dont want strings but i dont want to be sex buddies either. -- Posted by xchococatx at 3:41 pm on July 10, 2009 first of all....YOU ARE SO PRETTY!!!! secondly, he might have not meant. maybe he agreed because by you bringing it up he thought that that's what YOU might have wanted. try totalk to him again about it tho...if you feel confused -- Posted by ViLE at 3:42 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from belizabeth at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 That is just how some guys are. Maybe he did not mean to lead you to believe there was more to it than just sex. Sit down and talk to him that may help some. I did but he was like "he thought i wasnt one of those demanding girls" -- Posted by Uptown Swag at 3:44 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Alexia at 6:40 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Rabgix at 3:39 pm on July 10, 2009 Do you want strings?    If so, tell the guy. The major problem in relationships is that no one ever says how they are feelings. They expect the other person to be a mind reader. That's not how it works.    I can't guarantee he will agree, because he most likely wont. But its better to be heartbroken with dignity than a sex buddy wanting more. I dont want strings but i dont want to be sex buddies either. So break it off altogther. The makings of a dead end relationship are being shown here. -- Posted by ViLE at 3:46 pm on July 10, 2009 Gah i think i should just break it off and stop chasing pavements! thanks for your insight guys. -- Posted by crazyman at 6:22 pm on July 10, 2009 just enjoy it while it lasts...