-- Posted by Anonymous at 4:02 pm on July 10, 2009 i said some really hurtful things n the past to this girl well my brothers bf through my-space because i thought she was a bad person damn i regret it so much because she really wasn't a bad person Gr i feel so much guilt for hurting her lets just say i told her that when she got raped by her uncle she was asking 4 it   she never knew who sent her that message and it was me !!! should i tell her the truth i think she will hate me for it i don't wanna ruin the relationship we have now as friends :| or should i keep it to myself and never again do something like that? -- Posted by Anonymous at 4:02 pm on July 10, 2009 im sorry this is happening to you, what could possibly happen to make them think that way? -- Posted by Imessedup2 at 4:05 pm on July 10, 2009 Maybe now you will grow up and not be stupid in the future. No point in telling her that you were the asshole. I'm sure she doesn't want to be reminded of it. -- Posted by Imessedup2 at 4:05 pm on July 10, 2009 LOL<3 Try any books by Ellen Hopkins, -- Posted by squareness at 4:17 pm on July 10, 2009 That is absolutely horrible.what the fuck is wrong with you ?seriously,how could you even say something that sick ? Do the right thing,man up and tell her and let her to decide if she wants to forgive you.you owe her that much dont you think ? -- Posted by squareness at 4:17 pm on July 10, 2009 *fapfapfap* Go bald. -- Posted by MoonLoveBaby at 12:03 am on July 11, 2009 Well my dear...This is a tough one. I was raped when I was 6, by my uncle Jim. I am now 21, and to this day, I feel like I did something to deserve it. What the hell I could've done at the age of 6, I have no idea, but its in my head and it's not coming out. If I had recieved a message like that, it would absolutely crush me and further the thoughts I already have... BUT...were the person who'd sent me the message to approach me and tell me that they'd done it, I'd be wicked pissed. For about a day. And then I'd get over it. Because no matter what anyone says or does.. it happened, there are no answers as to why he did it, and to the best of my ability, it's never going to happen again. Personally, I'd tell her. Because the guilt of having sent her that message is going to eat you up far worse than her upset with you will. I promise. I hope you make the right decision.. and no, I dont think you're a terrible person for sending that message, for as I said before - its done, its over with... now do the right thing, and move on   -- Posted by MoonLoveBaby at 12:03 am on July 11, 2009 My room mate thinks I'm weird because I always talk about eyebrows. He says I have an eyebrow fetish. But I just notice them...