-- Posted by I Get Off at 8:03 pm on July 10, 2009 There is a long story behind this, but I don't feel like explaining it. My friend Timmy claims he likes me. I like him a lot too. But, about a month ago he asked if I was a virgin and I told him yes. He asked if he could take my virginity and I told him that he had a boyfriend, and I couldn't take him away from that, so I said no. He asked if he didn't have a boyfriend by my birthday if he could take it. I told him I didn't know, that we would see. My birthday is on the 18 of this month... he broke up with his boyfriend like a week ago... I was the first person he told. Now, he says that on my 15 birthday in a week that he is going to stay the night and we are gonna... yeah. I don't know, it just feels really wrong, and I don't want to just be used for sex... I don't know... does anyone else think this seems weird, and if so what should I do? -- Posted by Gruadia at 8:05 pm on July 10, 2009 If you want to have sex with him, go ahead. But I wouldn't give him what he wants so easily. -- Posted by pumpkin475 at 8:08 pm on July 10, 2009 if it feels wrong, don't do it. you will regret it. sounds to me like he's just a horndog. he's not obsessed with being with you and holding your hand and hanging out and cuddling, yaddah yaddah yaddah.....from what you've made it sound like, he's just obsessed with the idea of sex and maybe the idea alone of taking someone's virginity. so say no. if he truly "likes" you, he'll respect you -- Posted by OhSoDisastrous at 8:08 pm on July 10, 2009 Lol just do it.. putting emotion into the person you lose your virginity to sucks because you're just going to get heartbroken. -- Posted by SomeRandomKid at 8:10 pm on July 10, 2009 just go for it -- Posted by shibby2 at 8:12 pm on July 10, 2009 listen sex ruins frendships!!! I just recently lost my very best friend because we had sex and we didnt feel the same way about it. I hung out with this guy almost every day and he knew everything about me but i swore that i didnt like him for the longest time then we finally had sex and my best friend in the world hasnt talked to me in weeks :(:(:( -- Posted by kattt at 10:30 pm on July 10, 2009 k . well im gonna tell you from experience. ANAL ISNT FUN ./ NO NO NO NO OUCH OUCH OUCH . think how tiny your fucking asshole is . and then take a little looksy down his pants and now imagine a giant cucumber stretching you bum :) . still wanna have analllllll .................... -- Posted by Pampers at 12:37 am on July 11, 2009 you will regret it, dont do it im sure you will regret it, he's only using you. that sux