-- Posted by Alique at 8:35 pm on July 10, 2009 I don't want to get married yet. I'm 18 and I want to go to college, get a good life set up, save money, etc. But I have been with this guy for ever a year now, and I feel like we're going to work out. I mean, I don't want to rush things like a lot of people my age do, but I just want to be engaged. I can't explain why. Maybe it's a girl thing...? All I know is I wish I had some big sparkly ring on my finger. :D -- Posted by DuBBy at 8:37 pm on July 10, 2009 So just buy one. -- Posted by Randomaster at 8:37 pm on July 10, 2009 my girlfriend is like this, except more clingy -- Posted by Anonymous at 8:39 pm on July 10, 2009 I'm engaged, but I dont want a ring :) -- Posted by SomeRandomKid at 8:41 pm on July 10, 2009 live your life first -- Posted by Aristocrat at 8:45 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from SomeRandomKid at 8:41 pm on July 10, 2009 live your life first Why?  Can't she live a life when she get engaged or married too? -- Posted by Alique at 8:48 pm on July 10, 2009 Pretty much. I said I didn't wanna get married for a long time, and being engaged isn't exactly going to change anything. I think it's just the symbolism. -- Posted by Aristocrat at 9:05 pm on July 10, 2009 Quote: from Alique at 8:48 pm on July 10, 2009 Pretty much. I said I didn't wanna get married for a long time, and being engaged isn't exactly going to change anything. I think it's just the symbolism. Ok my motto is get married now while you are young and hot by the time you will be middle age or old you will be retired and the urges and everything is gone.  So why wait and waste time?! Lol