-- Posted by Anonymous at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 thanks :-) -- Posted by GoliathJustin at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 Lol. get him some viagra. -- Posted by Daleacus at 12:14 pm on July 14, 2009 Nerves. -- Posted by ifyoulikepinacoladas at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 Maybe you're just really terrible at giving handjobs. -- Posted by Banana KC at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 It had to have been him being nervous. If it happens more than like 3 more times, THEN there may be a problem. But, usually the first time is a problem. -- Posted by Fishboner at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 Nerves. And seriously, no one sustains an erection for an hour with just dry humping and kissing. -- Posted by pclueless92 at 12:16 pm on July 14, 2009 No, and ten minutes may not be enough time. -- Posted by GoliathJustin at 12:16 pm on July 14, 2009 Quote: from ifyoulikepinacoladas at 12:15 pm on July 14, 2009 Maybe you're just really terrible at giving handjobs. how the fuck...you make a circle with your hand, and move up and down. how hard is that. -- Posted by Hi Jack at 12:16 pm on July 14, 2009 if he had erectile disfunction, it would mean he couldn't get it up. you much be shitty at jerking him, suck him off instead, girls tend to be useless at handjobs, it's just annoying knowing that you can do a much better job. and if you jerked him for 10 and then stopped, he probably had blue balls, which is probably why he didn't get hard again, because it's painful, don't do that to him again. -- Posted by SimShrimp at 12:16 pm on July 14, 2009 It definitely doesn't mean he's gay. -- Posted by oridniv at 12:17 pm on July 14, 2009 PLS don't make a big deal out of it, guys's bodies just work like that....it goes on and off randomly and you have to get over that so don't make it personal -- Posted by Pampers at 12:17 pm on July 14, 2009 no he's not gay 1. he may not have the sex drive 2. i think he needs some viagra or something to keep him up -- Posted by arwen rashka at 12:19 pm on July 14, 2009 You're probably not that good, being a virgin. And he was probably hella nervous, also being a virgin. I wouldn't write him off right away. -- Posted by Natsy at 12:21 pm on July 14, 2009 Yes, he is gay -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:23 pm on July 14, 2009 Ok, thanks guys :-) -- Posted by Anonymous at 12:29 pm on July 14, 2009 Quote: from Anonymous at 12:13 pm on July 14, 2009 Yes, this question is serious. I was making out with my boyfriend and we were dry humping, kissing... normal messing around stuff. Well, I went to use my hands on him, for the first time, and he lost his erection! We had been making out and dry humping for over an hour... and we took a break before I started trying to jerk him off... He said that his thing was just tired, and that it had nothing to do with me. I tried jerking him off for like 10 minutes, shouldn't he have came? He's a virgin and so am I... he's never had anyone touch him like that before, so I thought he would cum right away... He didn't get hard again for the rest of the night.. until he went home... (he told me that..) Is what happened normal, or is something wrong? Was he not turned on by me anymore? He was hard before, so I don't get why he went soft when I was trying to get him off? Could this be a sign that he is gay? I'm confused. Thanks. dont do handjob or blowjob put his dick were is belongs in your pussy -- Posted by theyareAs at 12:32 pm on July 14, 2009 1. You suck at jerking. Give him some blow if you know what im saying 2. Nerves, ease into it. He prob jerked before he came over. 3. Hes not gay trust me, i hit on him last week and he didnt even ask for my number. lolz -- Posted by nik1 at 12:36 pm on July 14, 2009 It was certainly not because you didn't turn him on.  It has nothing to do with you.   Gay?   Why would you suggest this?  This is mean of you to even mention it.   It is not uncommon for this to happen to guys and those that say it's never happened it will at some point.  If this is his first time then you can blame it on nervousness.  If you think there is a lot of pressure on gals it is nothing compared to a guy's first time.  After all, our egos and our penis are hot wired together. Sometimes there are other things that cause impotency to happen, such as; drugs and alcohol. My suggestion to you would be to forget about it and pretend it never happened.  Trust me, he is humiliated enough. -- Posted by Panther1122 at 1:05 pm on July 14, 2009 he's just nervous, give him a break