-- Posted by imjustsofargone at 8:07 am on April 21, 2011 Just found out.I'm not ready and know what I  have to do unfortunately. -- Posted by RaVeTaStIc at 8:09 am on April 21, 2011 wow sounds like you hate kids. id wait it out and put it up for adoption becouse i n the future you will regret it or find a guy you will love and he will find out about the abortion and leave you -- Posted by TheFireballKid at 8:10 am on April 21, 2011 Are you leaving him? -- Posted by Tvirus at 8:12 am on April 21, 2011 You choose whats best for you not him. -- Posted by imjustsofargone at 8:13 am on April 21, 2011 I am thinking about leaving him because he's been really rude and snappy towards me.I don't see myself being a parent anytime soon.I have a lot to do and accomplish. -- Posted by Jim Raynor at 8:14 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from RaVeTaStIc at 12:39 pm on April 21, 2011 wow sounds like you hate kids. id wait it out and put it up for adoption becouse i n the future you will regret it or find a guy you will love and he will find out about the abortion and leave you Why go through the suffering? -- Posted by JennyColada at 8:18 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from RaVeTaStIc at 8:09 am on April 21, 2011  i n the future you will regret it or find a guy you will love and he will find out about the abortion and leave you This is absurd. I had an abortion when I was 18 (9 years ago) and, although I've met guys who weren't happy with my choice, ALL of them respected me to understand the choice. Guys will still date her, love her, STAY WITH HER. -- Posted by Doubleshift at 8:25 am on April 21, 2011 Do what you feel is best for you. -- Posted by GeorgieBooBoo at 8:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! -- Posted by Doubleshift at 8:27 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from GeorgieBooBoo at 11:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! I'm certain she has already taken everything into consideration. Besides, if he can't take of the child, it doesn't matter if he is supportive. He might as well not be there at all. -- Posted by RaVeTaStIc at 8:28 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from GeorgieBooBoo at 8:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! esactly georgie what if in the future she wishes she never made that choice -- Posted by GeorgieBooBoo at 8:29 am on April 21, 2011 I think they should have a good talk about it. and figure out something -- Posted by JennyColada at 8:30 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from GeorgieBooBoo at 8:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! A supportive boyfriend isn't all that you need. She's obviously not ready to be a parent, and trying to guilt her into doing it isn't just unfair, it's plain wrong. Is if fair for her to choose an abortion when her boyfriend doesn't want one? Well no, that's not fair either, but unfortunately sometimes that's how the world works. It sounds like she WANTS the abortion. Not everyone (me, for example) regrets an abortion. Some people are happy, releaved, and grateful to make the choice. -- Posted by JennyColada at 8:31 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from RaVeTaStIc at 8:28 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from GeorgieBooBoo at 8:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! esactly georgie what if in the future she wishes she never made that choice And what if she doesn't? -- Posted by Doubleshift at 8:32 am on April 21, 2011 If we made choices based only on the negative "what if's" then not much would ever get done. -- Posted by foreverinlove20 at 8:39 am on April 21, 2011 so your going to be extremely selfish and not even give the child a chance at life? what if you gave the baby up for adoption to a loving couple that is unable to have children of there own? -- Posted by imjustsofargone at 8:40 am on April 21, 2011 I'm glad that you Colada.I'll be relieved,much happier and less stressed after it's done.I rather have a child when I'm ready and the time is right.If I decided to have the child now (which is NOT NOT NOT NOT happening) I'd be full of anger and resentment for LIFE.Adoption isn't an option,I simply DON'T want to go through that emotional process.And NONE of you can convince me otherwise. -- Posted by Nyctimene at 8:43 am on April 21, 2011 Best of luck. :-) -- Posted by longliverock2 at 9:04 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from JennyColada at 11:31 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from RaVeTaStIc at 8:28 am on April 21, 2011 Quote: from GeorgieBooBoo at 8:26 am on April 21, 2011 But how would she feel knowing that she cant take that back? a life lost. and why are you just blaming it on your boyfriend? he cant make that kid on his own. at least he is trying to be supportive ! esactly georgie what if in the future she wishes she never made that choice And what if she doesn't? both of you are idiots. she couldn't take care of the kid obviously, and a life of suffering and being poor for that kid would be much worse. it's not even a life right now. -- Posted by babybluebitch at 10:16 am on April 21, 2011 all im going to say is ur hate that u did down the road... -- Posted by Glow Worm at 7:31 pm on April 21, 2011 Good luck with everything :) -- Posted by babybluebitch at 8:26 pm on April 21, 2011 but dont no one talk u into anything or out of anything ok -- Posted by Shogun villimax at 8:36 am on April 22, 2011 Quote: from imjustsofargone at 8:07 am on April 21, 2011 So,I just found out that I'm 10 weeks pregnant.I'm not emotionally or financially ready nor is my boyfriend.He claims to be emotionally ready but he has a terrible job and it's not stable plus I'm collecting disability.He's so mad that this is the choice I've made.I don't understand how he's ready for a child when he can barely provide for himself and me.He's so fucking dumb!! I feel like he just wants to trap me and ruin my future.My appointment is Tuesday and I can't wait to have the abortion.I'm tired of feeling sick,don't want a responsibility or getting fat and stuck with him and his kid for life. Then why did you have sex with him?!