-- Posted by LittleOne90 at 11:32 am on Jan. 12, 2006 i probably have the wrong forum i always do but i need some help. i am moving to my dad's wich my mum does not want me to do, she keeps giving me guilt trips and i am thinking of telling her that i'm not going and then tell her at the airport i am but my dad will disapprove and i don't know what to do i'm fed up of her i even contemplate ending it all even if i know it is the wrong answer i need help (she is also a acoholic) -- Posted by fitzy at 11:34 am on Jan. 12, 2006 do what u want if u want to go to urs dad go there, u have to do whats best for u -- Posted by weirdo101 at 11:36 am on Jan. 12, 2006 tell her that what ever she says cant stop you from going so to stop wasting her time. -- Posted by sawubona1111 at 11:41 am on Jan. 12, 2006 I've spent my whole life on guilt trips, I feel like my mums mum, escape now, have a life, dont throw it away -- Posted by cutiepie25 at 12:01 pm on Jan. 12, 2006 tell her that you still love her just as much (if you do??) and say you just want to be with your dad too. she shouldnt really try to keep you from visiting him, but she probably just doesnt want to let you go. just tell her you want to see your dad and she cant change your mind -- Posted by LittleOne90 at 12:42 pm on Jan. 12, 2006 iwant to live with him -- Posted by sawubona1111 at 12:57 pm on Jan. 12, 2006 then do it   -- Posted by machine at 3:14 pm on Jan. 12, 2006 that sux -- Posted by sugachix at 8:51 pm on Jan. 16, 2006 Gutted -- Posted by SexyBitch4U at 11:02 am on May 18, 2006 i had the same situation i left my mom for my dad a couple times heres what i did i told me mom that i love each parent the same i just needed some time to be with my father. At first she didnt understand i told her id visit her everday and call her.. i just need to be a teenage girl n have fun with my father she understood n was fine after with my decision -- Posted by ricerice at 8:17 pm on May 18, 2006 Just do what you want, not what people tell you to do. Its wrong for your parents to make you feel bad based on decisions in which you choose one over the other. Theyy cant run your life like that so its a decision that you will have to make as if they had no part in it.