-- Posted by mirotic at 4:41 am on April 4, 2012 I have a 18th coming up in a few days time, and I know that my ex will be there because of our mutual friends. Should I avoid it or should I go to it? I don't think my heart is ready to see her, but at the same time, I don't want to avoid a social gathering just because of her. -- Posted by Bo Steel at 4:42 am on April 4, 2012 Go. You have to show her you've moved on. -- Posted by TavTaav at 4:47 am on April 4, 2012 Sack up and go. It doesn't matter if she's there, it isn't like you're there for her, or will even necessarily have to talk to her while you're their, either. -- Posted by amber1991 at 5:42 am on April 4, 2012 Go to it. You don't have to talk to her or even look at her. Involve yourself in other people and you won't have a problem. -- Posted by liarble2014 at 6:22 am on April 4, 2012 Have fun ull prolly meet sumone else there anyway...ur world does nt revolve around her anymore