-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:33 am on May 1, 2012 Because it's not good to always depend on people to keep you happy. Half of the time or most of the time they could care less about your emotions. Many people are selfish. Sometimes i do feel lonely and very bored so I end up giving in and going with the flow with my "friends" but at the end up the day I end up feeling disappointed because of their mistreatment, rudeness as well as lack of maturity or common sense towards others feelings. Then when they realize that you haven't been hanging out with them for about 2+ weeks they start acting all nice towards you and acting like they care about you. "Oh how have you been we miss you so much, we have to get together and party hard again, get wasted." Yeah, they don't really care about how you are doing as a person, they just wanna use you as someone they can party with, maybe because they got bored of their other friends or because they want to make their group bigger when partying so they can feel "popular" who knows. *sigh* Just ranting I guess. This is how most of the friends i've had in my life time are and I get a new group of friends about every 3 years for those reasons, but they all just proof me right and end up acting the same. See, huge disappointment. And they say being antisocial is bad, well I don't blame antisocial people for being how they are. It's a crazy world out there, people will eat you alive. -- Posted by 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012 when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision? -- Posted by EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012 They could care less? -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:52 am on May 1, 2012 Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012 when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision? *sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess. -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:52 am on May 1, 2012 Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012 They could care less? Yes that is what I said. -- Posted by ohlawdy at 12:13 pm on May 1, 2012 i prefer to be a loner, too! i love being with my animals, nature and my own thoughts/fantasies. it's all good. as long as you are happy, that is all that matters. -- Posted by 1i at 2:14 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:52 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012 when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision? *sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess. So basically things would be great for you if you could be around people most of the time, but those people were actually considerate of your feelings? -- Posted by Anonymous at 6:50 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from 1i at 2:14 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from Anonymous at 1:52 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from 1i at 11:35 am on May 1, 2012 when you prefer to be a loner, do you accept your decision?    *sigh* not really. Even when I decide to be social, I don't always accept it either for the reasons that I just mentioned, but being antisocial is boring and lonely. So it's a lose lose situation I guess. So basically things would be great for you if you could be around people most of the time, but those people were actually considerate of your feelings? i'm not trying to sound like an emotional wreck or a "big baby" i just want to be respected is all. I guess yes, what you said. -- Posted by EmerleeX at 10:26 am on May 3, 2012 Quote: from Anonymous at 7:52 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012 They could care less? Yes that is what I said. Could care less doesn't make sense. It's Couldn't care less. -- Posted by Anonymous at 4:30 pm on May 3, 2012 Quote: from EmerleeX at 10:26 am on May 3, 2012 Quote: from Anonymous at 7:52 pm on May 1, 2012 Quote: from EmerleeX at 11:38 am on May 1, 2012 They could care less?    Yes that is what I said. Could care less doesn't make sense. It's Couldn't care less. Thank you.