-- Posted by Natsy at 5:11 pm on June 16, 2012 How long are you willing to wait? Do you have a cut off point? Say you're still single and no one wants to marry you in 5 years time, but people are willing to date and fuck you. Would you 'give in' then? What about in 10 years time? /genuinely curious. -- Posted by Countrygirl101 at 5:12 pm on June 16, 2012 I wanted to wait till marriage when I was younger... Didn't happen -- Posted by 1i at 5:18 pm on June 16, 2012 the lack of a marriage would probably be a bigger issue than the lack of sex -- Posted by Procrasturbation at 5:18 pm on June 16, 2012 i'm not really saving myself for marriage, just a genuine relationship i'm still young so i'm not too concerned about it -- Posted by Charlei at 5:33 pm on June 16, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took. -- Posted by audrey820 at 5:37 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 6:33 pm on June 16, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took. did you last til marriage? -- Posted by Natsy at 5:45 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 1:33 am on June 17, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took. Use your imagination. -- Posted by Charlei at 5:47 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Natsy at 8:45 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 1:33 am on June 17, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took. Use your imagination. The answer is the same, I intended to wait, no matter how long it took, and I would have. -- Posted by Charlei at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from audrey820 at 8:37 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 6:33 pm on June 16, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took. did you last til marriage? Unfortunatly, No.  I wish I had however.  I let a pushy ex, talk me into having sex, and I really only did it, so as not to lose him.  I don't really regret it, but I would have done it differently.  My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together, which is why I didn't think twice about it.  Not only that, I was already not a virgin. -- Posted by NaNa PuNk RoKer91 at 6:55 pm on June 16, 2012 i used to allways say id wait for marrige when i was like 5 but i ended up looseing it at 14, but he's the only person ive ever slept with, i think waiting is awsome and i give girl respect that try and wait, but i dont see it as such a big thing, i say wait till your ready -- Posted by Natsy at 6:22 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 1:47 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Natsy at 8:45 pm on June 16, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 1:33 am on June 17, 2012 When I had the intention of waiting, it was for however long it took.    Use your imagination. The answer is the same, I intended to wait, no matter how long it took, and I would have. Play my game! -- Posted by gucciva at 7:09 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012 My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together   Um, isn't that like every time you are with someone? -- Posted by Charlei at 7:46 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from gucciva at 10:09 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012  My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together  Um, isn't that like every time you are with someone? What? If you are implying that's how I felt every time I was withsomeone, absolutely not.  The only person I ever truly saw myself with forever was my husband. -- Posted by La taysia at 4:00 am on June 19, 2012 I said I was waiting till I was married when I was about 15. To be honest it would just something to say and I didn't think I would go through with it. I'm 23 and still a virgin but I really doubt I will wait till marriage though. As long as I am in a relationship with someone I can potentially see myself with in the long run, its all good. At this rate I will be a 40 year old virgin lmao I'm so picky -- Posted by gucciva at 4:07 am on June 20, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 7:46 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from gucciva at 10:09 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012 My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together     Um, isn't that like every time you are with someone? What? If you are implying that's how I felt every time I was withsomeone, absolutely not. The only person I ever truly saw myself with forever was my husband. OK. I just thought that you, as most people I know, date with people they want to date, not with people they want to break up. -- Posted by Charlei at 4:29 am on June 20, 2012 Quote: from gucciva at 7:07 am on June 20, 2012Quote: from Hunnies at 7:46 am on June 17, 2012Quote: from gucciva at 10:09 am on June 17, 2012Quote: from Hunnies at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012  My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together �   Â Um, isn't that like every time you are with someone? OK. I just thought that you, as most people I know, date with people they want to date, not with people they want to break up.You are kidding right?  Of course I dated people I wanted to date.  Just because I date someone doesn't mean I see a future with them. -- Posted by Spice at 5:10 am on June 20, 2012 Quote: from gucciva at 12:07 pm on June 20, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 7:46 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from gucciva at 10:09 am on June 17, 2012 Quote: from Hunnies at 5:50 pm on June 16, 2012  My husband and I had sex before marriage, but we knew that we were going to be together    Um, isn't that like every time you are with someone? What?    If you are implying that's how I felt every time I was withsomeone, absolutely not.  The only person I ever truly saw myself with forever was my husband. OK. I just thought that you, as most people I know, date with people they want to date, not with people they want to break up. wanting to date someone isn't the same as being confident you'll be together forever -- Posted by JennyColada at 7:50 am on June 20, 2012 I don't really like you're going to get the right answers. In hypothetical situations people tend to stuck to their guns, not see the error of their ways. I doubt anyone choosing to wait for marriage would think "yea, if it gets to xYZ I won't wait. But until then, marriage all the way!" That's like asking a newlywed couple "how long until you get a divorce?" no one thinks it will happen. -- Posted by Natsy at 5:22 pm on June 20, 2012 Quote: from JennyColada at 3:50 pm on June 20, 2012 I don't really like you're going to get the right answers. In hypothetical situations people tend to stuck to their guns, not see the error of their ways. I doubt anyone choosing to wait for marriage would think "yea, if it gets to xYZ I won't wait. But until then, marriage all the way!" That's like asking a newlywed couple "how long until you get a divorce?" no one thinks it will happen. Yeah, i should have known better than to hope for serious answers. A divorce is different because a number of things could go wrong. Here I gave a very specific scenario: no one wants to marry you. What now? -- Posted by JennyColada at 1:08 am on June 21, 2012 It's not so much serious versus non-serious answers. You're just asking a poor question. You're trying to ask people to put themselves in a situation that isn't concurrent with their current reality. Most people find that hard to do.