-- Posted by Saragirl500 at 4:39 pm on June 26, 2012 I don't know what to do. The man I once swore was my soulmate I don't feel those feelings anymore. I don't know if he and I are right for one another anymore. My god, we don't even call each other anymore. I though I was in love, but those feelings are gone now. I just can't do it anymore. I don't want to hurt him; but I think staying in a relationship where neither of us truly love one another will hurt us both. -- Posted by OOlCU812 at 5:02 pm on June 26, 2012 The honeymoon phase is over it would seem. -- Posted by coolbills at 5:09 pm on June 26, 2012 how did you get yourself into it? People need to slow down these days -- Posted by Saragirl500 at 2:33 pm on June 28, 2012 people are assuming we are married or living together which is not true. We live in seperate states -- Posted by amiee at 2:50 pm on June 28, 2012 Talk to him. Sometimes this happens, and that's ok. I mean, of course it's a difficult thing to come to terms with and to realise is happening to what was once a wonderful relationship, but sometimes people just fall out of love. Do you see eachother often or do you think living in separate states has anything to do with how you're feeling? I think it's important to figure out if these feelings are a result of being apart (lack of communication, or something else entirely), or if you really are ready to move on with your life and away from this relationship. Communicating some of your feelings with him might help you figure things out a bit. And you're right, it'll only hurt you both to stay in this relationship longer if you're not feeling it anymore. Maybe have a wee think to yourself about what you want in your life, where you want this relationship to go and if you can see any of this being resolved. If it's a matter of communication, distance or anything else, and if you think that can be worked on, then talk to him about it. Tell him how you're feeling. But if you feel that you've fallen out of love with him then that honestly is ok, it does happen. -- Posted by Jaguar at 10:10 pm on June 28, 2012 Time to bail out. -- Posted by Reidtastic13 at 1:06 am on June 29, 2012 Talking to him would be the best course of action. Tell him how you're feeling. I'm sure he cares about you and will try to understand. It's hard to not hurt someone, but don't stay in the relationship if you are unhappy. It's not fair to either of you.