-- Posted by hmahhm at 3:19 pm on July 30, 2012 i mean he seems to like girls who are really skinny...hm...i wonder what he thinks of my figure -- Posted by malignant melanoma at 3:20 pm on July 30, 2012 Are you dating him? -- Posted by BR0CONUT at 3:20 pm on July 30, 2012 does he even pay attention to you -- Posted by Cat Turned Blue at 3:21 pm on July 30, 2012 If he really likes you he wont care about your weight. -- Posted by roll out at 3:21 pm on July 30, 2012 hay gurl listen, if the guy you like ( this is gonna sound ultra mega gay) doesn't like you for you and doesn't also find your looks as a plus, then he's just not worth it. also, hey sexy. missed you. -- Posted by hmahhm at 3:22 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from BR0CONUT at 3:20 pm on July 30, 2012 does he even pay attention to you yes -- Posted by Jefe at 3:23 pm on July 30, 2012 you are not fat -- Posted by Forgiveness And Love at 3:24 pm on July 30, 2012 If he judges you based on your weight, he's not worth your time. Also, I've heard you aren't fat by any means and that you're the dumbest person on lw. -- Posted by polio at 3:24 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from SPECIAL AGENT ORANGE at 11:21 pm on July 30, 2012 If he really likes you he wont care about your weight. that's a load of bollocks. but OP you're really nowhere near being fat at all. -- Posted by hmahhm at 3:25 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from Heraclitus at 3:23 pm on July 30, 2012 you are not fat i dont think i am fat but some guys seem to have a preference for girls who are really skinny rather than normal looking people -- Posted by hmahhm at 3:25 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from Forgiveness And Love at 3:24 pm on July 30, 2012 If he judges you based on your weight, he's not worth your time. Also, I've heard you aren't fat by any means and that you're the dumbest person on lw. i think you're dumb -- Posted by iamironman at 3:27 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from Forgiveness And Love at 6:24 pm on July 30, 2012 Also, I've heard you aren't fat by any means and that you're the dumbest person on lw. You have been well informed. -- Posted by malignant melanoma at 3:28 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from polio at 3:24 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from SPECIAL AGENT ORANGE at 11:21 pm on July 30, 2012 If he really likes you he wont care about your weight. that's a load of bollocks. but OP you're really nowhere near being fat at all. To a certain extent, it is true but only after you've been in a relationship for a while. If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. -- Posted by veronica22boo at 3:29 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from SPECIAL AGENT ORANGE at 8:21 am on July 31, 2012 If he really likes you he wont care about your weight. this^^ -- Posted by polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. -- Posted by malignant melanoma at 3:33 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway -- Posted by Forgiveness And Love at 3:36 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from hmahhm at 6:25 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from Forgiveness And Love at 3:24 pm on July 30, 2012 If he judges you based on your weight, he's not worth your time.    Also, I've heard you aren't fat by any means and that you're the dumbest person on lw. i think you're dumb Is that so? -- Posted by polio at 3:36 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:33 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway see i think that's fine because you both seem to be okay with it and at least understand each other. on the other hand there might be couples who wouldn't be as comfortable with their partners putting on weight like that. -- Posted by hmahhm at 3:48 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. he's the type of person who doesn't gain weight no matter what he eats so that can't happen -- Posted by JennyColada at 3:50 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 3:33 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway The fact that you even say it is "slightly annoying" seems to obviously go against the "he won't care" idea. Caring about an issue doesn't mean that it's break up worthy right then and there. I'd be lying to say that my partner's weight doesn't matter to me, but I'd also be lying to try to imply that other things aren't more important. -- Posted by Demonsateme at 4:04 pm on July 30, 2012 Outside of you not important it's the inside that counts. -- Posted by malignant melanoma at 4:09 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from JennyColada at 3:50 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from malignant melanoma at 3:33 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from polio at 3:30 pm on July 30, 2012Quote: from malignant melanoma at 11:28 pm on July 30, 2012 If both of you gain weight as you relationship progresses, then you're in the clear. i don't necessarily think that's the case though, at least for me. just because you're committed to each other doesn't mean either person would be okay with the other letting themselves go, and get fat. Yeah i guess that's true. My boyfriend and I have both gained a lot of weight in the years we've been together. I am actively making an effort to lose the weight, but he isn't which is slightly annoying. I still love him though and want to be with him anyway   The fact that you even say it is "slightly annoying" seems to obviously go against the "he won't care" idea. Caring about an issue doesn't mean that it's break up worthy right then and there. I'd be lying to say that my partner's weight doesn't matter to me, but I'd also be lying to try to imply that other things aren't more important. yeah, you're right. well, i think it's more that he doesn't mind how i look right now even though i've gained weight and i slightly mind how he looks because of how he hasn't even tried to eat better/exercise more since he's gained weight. i've never brought it up to him. i think i'm just full of contradictions. -- Posted by Countrygirl101 at 4:42 pm on July 30, 2012 Why do you care wht he thinks -- Posted by hmahhm at 5:01 pm on July 30, 2012 Quote: from Countrygirl101 at 4:42 pm on July 30, 2012 Why do you care wht he thinks i feel like i need his approval for a sense of validation