-- Posted by Sweetiebee at 9:46 am on April 30, 2006 I can't figure this out. I got a boyfriend already. But, I think my boyfriend is angry at me because I keep talking about this boy in my college social group. But, he tells me he isn't, so I believe him. But, the reason I'm out of my mind is because one of my friend, well...how should I put this...had a crush on me. See, let me refer to what happened that day when I figured out he had a crush on me. Well, I'm going to summarize it as I can. 3 weeks ago, there was a beach party. There was alot of people there. I have this friend, Juan, but I call him "Miro" for short. He never left my side through out the whole thing. And, well, basically it was drama when he figured out that I don't love him. But, I don't know what to do. I like my friend only like a friend and nothing more and he knows that. He said he would stop, but he continues to flirt. Help!! -- Posted by AquaAlli at 9:51 am on April 30, 2006 OK well first of all you might want to stop obsessively talking about that boy in your college social group, because if you think it's making your boyfriend mad then it's probably a good idea to stop. As far as "Miro" goes, have you talked to him about it? You say he "knows" that you want to be just friends but still won't leave you alone... but maybe he just thinks you're taking a while to come around to him. I think you should have a talk with him about how you really like him as a friend but you don't want to be anything more, and if he keeps hanging on to you then you won't be able to see him as much. Especially if his clinging is just going to make your boyfriend madder at you... a real friend wouldn't want that. Explain that to him, and I hope he stops. -- Posted by Solus at 9:53 am on April 30, 2006 Tell him -very- slowly that he has to stop tell him if he doesn't your boyfriend is probably going to beat the crap out of him and it won't be pretty. If he continues threaten to issue a restraining order. -- Posted by bball beanie at 10:39 am on April 30, 2006 Don't issue a restraining order unless he is really bothering you. i would say that you just need to talk to him, and it is perfectally normal for your boyfriend to be jelous, natural hormones...