-- Posted by Eye Of Beauty at 10:59 am on Aug. 21, 2006 out of the pack of my mates.. i can say even though we are all tom boys.. i have to say i am the girly one. which at times is annoying, cause i fear that i am losing, and breaking apart from my crew. i always have to have my hair nicely done when going out.. but when it is time to get down and dirty..it's me. there  is only one person who never once made funny of me, and who except my for my changes. but my other friends well they are not taken it really well. what should i do? -- Posted by xXxblondiexXx at 11:04 am on Aug. 21, 2006 its your choie who you want to be and who you are they are not real friends if they don't accept you for who you are you need to explain that to them! -- Posted by metacarPi at 11:06 am on Aug. 21, 2006 Quote: from xXxblondiexXx at 3:04 pm on Aug. 21, 2006 its your choie who you want to be and who you are they are not real friends if they don't accept you for who you are you need to explain that to them! agree. -- Posted by m ina at 11:09 am on Aug. 21, 2006 i agree with the above. be urself and don't let others influence u into being something u're not -- Posted by iimjustbadnews at 11:15 am on Aug. 21, 2006 be who you want to be. thats the end. -- Posted by Spice at 11:46 am on Aug. 21, 2006 You should only be who you want to be. Still keep your current friends, but maybe seek new ones, people to hang around with at other times of the week. You can't stay feeling left out. You need to have friends for you and be who you are, not others around you want you to be. PM if you'd like to talk more xx -- Posted by Misutsu at 11:27 pm on Aug. 21, 2006 Friends shouldn't not accept each other just because their style is different.  If your friends aren't accepting of the way you look, then you ought to sit them down and tell them this.  If they don't stop this after a talk, then you should start branching out to other people...slowly, though, so your current friends won't get suspicious.  Let it look like it's happening naturally.