-- Posted by Blondiesuperman 8 at 7:40 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 i use to think being strong was never losing self control...but i just can't be strong n e more...i told this guy eddie that i liked him...like 2 weeks ago right?and then not last monday but the week before he came up put his arm around me and everything seemed...fine...he wanted to walk me to my car...but it was the other direction...well this last monday...like things were different...he treated me good...but he says that he can't txt during school so i don't txt him in school hes very dedacated to his tennis...and well i help him out with it...i see him pretty much every monday...i don't wanna lose him and i really like him...i ono what to do...   i txt him one day and asked him what he thought of my letter (cause thats how i told him i liked him) and no answer so i asked him monday and he told me do you want me to tell you or txt you and tell you...so i stupidly answered if its bad i don't wanna know...and kept walking away saying i know its bad blah blah blah... and he never answered me...it might be because i didn't give him a chance...i ono but then i called him and left him a message saying "forget that just call my cell and tell me!" and he never did...yet its wed. and i still haven't found out... please help me what should i do...or say or w/e.... -- Posted by jeg2315 at 7:48 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 If he doesn't answer, it probably means he doesn't like you... -- Posted by Blondiesuperman 8 at 7:49 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 im afraid of that but then again....hes dedacated to his tennis...he coulda been busy -- Posted by jeg2315 at 7:50 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 It would take him like a few minutes to call you and tell you...I doubt he doesn't have a few free minutes of time in his day...He probably doesn't like you, you need to let go... -- Posted by Blondiesuperman 8 at 7:53 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 easier said then done.. -- Posted by Spice at 11:36 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 Ok, so you have to wait another 3days for the answer. Wait. Talk to him fce to face, it is always better to talk to someone face to face, give him the chance to speak and then you'll know where you stand - whether to wait for him or not. Why do you only see him Mondays? I know you're hurting right now - I have been where you are, you just have to take it as it comes, whether it turns out how you want it to or not, could you still be friends with him if he doesn't like you? And would you? Being friends is hard, but if you manage to maintain a friendship after something like that, then maybe, just maybe, one day he will see you as more than a friend if you choose to stick around him, by him even. Good luck, ask him Monday - face to face, rather than technology is far better for conversations like these. PM if you want to talk