-- Posted by Ladybird at 10:11 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 the guy Virgo I am going out with, just found out his ex since 3 + weeks ago likes him again. he stated on his msn space this what it said " And I'm contemplating suicide(8) There is a flaw in my character, Not unlike the flaw in life, Where blood spills from an open wound, Guilt and honesty seep from my lips. Unable to stem the flow it gushes out, Widening and scarring the skin and muscle, And the hope of ever stopping it fails. And so I am even more flawed with my failure, Stuck on a track of loving someone, Who I cannot trust, cannot touch again. While seemingly holding hands with no one. I can only act to make this end, Where in acting slashed my soul. making this flaw that couses me, myself, to tear myself and reassemble the rend. burn the medicated flesh to make me whole again. ~So Kayla broke up with me, and I fought it, fought the devasting feeling of knowing that I lost someone. someone I thought I could trust, who I thought would actually tell me things that worry them. I thought I could be there for her to lean on. and I drove her away. So I let it go. I let it all go like I knew I should, she left becouse I was a failure again, I screwed up in ways I can only imagine, and I could only do one thing but move on. And then I went to the fair. I found someone who I trusted, and I hoped again. then to find out that Kayla still liked me. Now we could have yelled at each other, broke down and cried and apoligized and laughed at the irony of it all. but we did something much crueler. We stood and faked smiles and acceptances like we were glad the other one was happy. And now I'm left with a decision, to go back to the girl who I barely trust, but have more foundation with. Or the girl who I trust, but have barely forged anything.... looks like I'v really cut my life into peices...(8) " Kayla is the ex. I am the other girl. We have been going out since monday (known eachother for 2 years) , and i just dont know what to do. I have not brought it up to him, but i dont know if I should. he brakes up with me, i 'll say that i wont be a fall back girl and wait. not to be bitch just let him know that i really liked him for him. what should i do? -- Posted by Ladybird at 10:12 pm on Sep. 6, 2006 by the way i have yahoo so i searched for him in msn spaces. it was not hard but it was not like he gave it to me! -- Posted by Spice at 12:25 am on Sep. 7, 2006 I think, you should talk to him. How much do you really like him? Enough to support him right now? He needs to support, what he's going through is hard, though it may just seem as though someone loves him, he loves them. But he doesn't trust her. He trusts you. Trust is a huge issue in a relationship. If he decides that he doesn't want to be with you, don't be the fall back girl, he may never fall back on you if he decides to trust her again. -- Posted by Icyfire at 6:14 am on Sep. 7, 2006 wow that must suck to be in the balance waiting for him to decide. it seems like he's confused. -- Posted by Mad2daX at 6:21 am on Sep. 7, 2006 You might hate my answer but it's the truth. If this guy is to stupid to realize the good he has in you, then let him leave. If he wants to ignore the history of this girl leaving him, so be it. All im saying is, if he doesent see that your a better person than his Ex: would ever be, then your better off finding yourself a man that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Dont wait, dont get hurt, and show yourself that you can get someone that will love you for you and not just see you as a rebound or someone to fall back on. Because if you wait, thats exactly what you will be. Someone for him to fall back on when she leaves him like she did the first time. If you need someone to talk to dont hesistate to Message me. Im here whenever you may need someone to talk to.