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-- Posted by marilyns baby at 9:34 am on Oct. 11, 2006

I just got into high school and everyone singles me out because I'm goth and its really annoying. I have one real good friend and that's a guy. What can i Do?


-- Posted by Seanee at 9:36 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Erm.. Be loyal to that friend.


-- Posted by asianguy at 9:36 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Take no offense to this but, Try not to be a goth and prob nobody will singe you out.


-- Posted by daboss at 9:36 am on Oct. 11, 2006

you can make friends on here, and i can be one of your friends, you can PM anytime


-- Posted by Allyssia at 9:36 am on Oct. 11, 2006

ummm...i dont know.try talking to people that you normally wouldnt because they are like PREP or something an dsee what happenes ??


-- Posted by marilyns baby at 9:37 am on Oct. 11, 2006

I can't help but be goth its who I am.


-- Posted by jenny thunder at 9:37 am on Oct. 11, 2006

jenny can be your friend. i'm goth, i just don't look like it.


-- Posted by Periwinkle at 9:38 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Don't be a goth. Follow whatever your style is, but don't let them label you.


-- Posted by Trastie at 9:39 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from marilyns baby at 9:37 am on Oct. 11, 2006


I can't help but be goth its who I am.


Why is this in the college forums if you just go into highschool?

Also, just because you are a goth, whatever the hell that means, doesn't mean you can't talk to other people.


-- Posted by victoria6689 at 9:40 am on Oct. 11, 2006

At the moment, you have a friend and that's great...  I'm sure that you'll have more later, do not worry... You just have to be yourself, that's the right thing to do...


-- Posted by yunasfinalfantasy at 9:40 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Hey, just be good to the one friend that you have.  If you want to have more friends, try to be as open as you can to all types of people, and before you know it someone will approach you, find you interresting, and befriend you.


-- Posted by sheshaw364 at 9:46 am on Oct. 11, 2006

well for one dont let people judge you....who cares what they think......just be you not anybody alse


-- Posted by tasha9899 at 9:49 am on Oct. 11, 2006

You'll make friends eventually. Is my school the only school that really doesn't care what people look like to make friends? Sheesh.


-- Posted by angelblueeyes at 9:50 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from sheshaw364 at 11:46 am on Oct. 11, 2006


well for one dont let people judge you....who cares what they think......just be you not anybody alse

thats exactly what i was going to say.. don't change who you are to make pple happy... thats one of the worst things that you could do... i've been through this b4 it's not easy to do alone.... so if you ever need help or just need to talk, just p.m me!!!


-- Posted by colombianprincess at 9:55 am on Oct. 11, 2006

you shouldn't care what people think.


-- Posted by vieve at 10:05 am on Oct. 11, 2006

hey we got a girl like that at our school. and she looked at all the kids who said something about it and told them to kiss it. no she probly has it out worse than you do becuase we live in a hicktown in southren IL


-- Posted by oatmealcs at 10:11 am on Oct. 11, 2006

Try to keep an open mind about other people and make sure you are not judging them too quickly on the way that they dress or the people the hang out with. Also, most high schools have lots of different clubs and organizations to join.....so check them out and find one to join. If theres not anything at your school, trying looking in your community. You'll meet people who share your interests.


-- Posted by marilyns baby at 10:12 am on Oct. 11, 2006

I don't judge people everyone won't talk to me.  I try to talk to them but the just ditch me. I 'll try ur advice.


-- Posted by 50cent at 3:38 am on Oct. 16, 2006

you can give me a kiss.


-- Posted by mulbree at 6:57 am on Oct. 16, 2006

Wait till u get older and people dont care so much about what 'type' you fit into. be a good person and you'll always be likeable


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