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-- Posted by DisBDatMMGurl at 2:41 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

its this guy he's kool n all i like him but im not sure if its ok 4 me 2 go with him because of the age difference......is that a problem???

P.S: n please only leave comment that'll help please n thank you


-- Posted by MattmaN at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Yeah bad, dont do it

Your not on the same level, both maturity and experience


-- Posted by jeg2315 at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

First of all, it's illegal...Second of all, you two are in different life stages, and don't think for a second that you two 'understand' each other and 'like' each other.


-- Posted by Blasphemous Cow at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

You fool. Of course it's wrong.

Find someone your own age.


-- Posted by LilShawty at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

no...can u say petifile any louder?


-- Posted by GOREGASM at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Perhaps he is a little too old, but it really depends how you feel about it/him.


-- Posted by xestrangedx at 2:43 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

You are doubting so you must think it is wrong. You have to be asking yourself - why is a 23 year old MAN interested in a 15 year old girl?


-- Posted by luxy at 2:43 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

yes its wrong, is he a teacher or something?


-- Posted by anniepie7727 at 2:44 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

way to old don't not a good idea


-- Posted by DisBDatMMGurl at 2:45 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

no he's a guy i known 4 a while we r good friends


-- Posted by wOlF at 2:46 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

That is too much of an age difference for me.  

Call me old fashioned, but the age of consent in Michigan, (and Ohio too, I believe) is 16.  15 year olds simply haven't matured, physically and mentally enough to go out with a 23 year old man.  He has much more expirience in all aspects of relationships.  He will want to do things that is normal for someone his age but will make you very un-comfortable.  Your parents also won't approve of this.  Do you think that they want you doing God knows what with someone almost twice your age?

Stay away from this, you will only end up hurting you and your family.


-- Posted by pinkicecubes at 2:47 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

I dont think it's wrong just different. My friend was 14 when she started seeing this guy who was 23 she's 19 now and they're engaged and have moved in together now.
Sometimes it can work.


-- Posted by VirtusInternus at 2:48 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

not a good idea. wait until you're 16 at least


-- Posted by DisBDatMMGurl at 2:48 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from pinkicecubes at 2:47 pm on Oct. 11, 2006


I dont think it's wrong just different. My friend was 14 when she started seeing this guy who was 23 she's 19 now and they're engaged and have moved in together now.
Sometimes it can work.

kk thanx that helps


-- Posted by DisBDatMMGurl at 3:06 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from LilShawty at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006


no...can u say petifile any louder?

he's not a petifile i kno that 4 a fact i really like him tho....


-- Posted by Niick at 3:13 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from DisBDatMMGurl at 6:06 pm on Oct. 11, 2006


Quote: from LilShawty at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

no...can u say petifile any louder?

he's not a petifile i kno that 4 a fact


No you don't. Unless you created a mind device allowing live access to hsi inner most thoughts that happen inside his brain, no you do not.


-- Posted by DoomMaker at 3:34 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from DisBDatMMGurl at 5:48 pm on Oct. 11, 2006


Quote: from pinkicecubes at 2:47 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

I dont think it's wrong just different. My friend was 14 when she started seeing this guy who was 23 she's 19 now and they're engaged and have moved in together now.  
 Sometimes it can work.

kk thanx that helps


See, she only listens to what she wants to hear.


It probably didn't work out as well as you thought. I still doubt their relationship is very equal at all.


-- Posted by DisBDatMMGurl at 3:37 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from littlenicky40 at 3:13 pm on Oct. 11, 2006


Quote: from DisBDatMMGurl at 6:06 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

Quote: from LilShawty at 2:42 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

no...can u say petifile any louder?
 

 he's not a petifile i kno that 4 a fact


No you don't. Unless you created a mind device allowing live access to hsi inner most thoughts that happen inside his brain, no you do not.


yes i do kno 4 a fact he isnt one


-- Posted by twiggy666 at 3:44 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

DONT DO IT! *jumps on her*


-- Posted by MrsMorgan at 5:02 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

I think it's a bad idea. Think about it this way? Whether you notice it now or not, wouldn't a 23 y.o. have to be pretty immature to have a lot of things in common with a 15 y.o.? I'm turning 17 on Halloween and my boyfriend's 18-if he was any older, WE wouldn't have anything in common with him. Plus, I think it's kind of gross for someone that old to want to be with someone that young. That last bit's a personal opinion, but the first is a fact. Think on it before you let anything serious happen that you might regret later.


-- Posted by xcutioners at 5:08 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

If you're 18+ and you are dating a person who is younger.. it's fine..

But if it's up to sex, it'll be rape


-- Posted by tipsy at 5:10 pm on Oct. 11, 2006

well i dont think u should date him.. my mom went out with a guy that much older then her when she was 15.. he turned out to be my dad.. my mom got pregnant, and they arent together now.. that should definitly say something


-- Posted by shen10200 at 11:58 am on Sep. 12, 2008

yes it is very much weird


-- Posted by lifeisgood477 at 4:35 pm on Sep. 15, 2008

no, but its illegal til the 15 year old is 18


-- Posted by twilightxlovex at 2:00 pm on Sep. 17, 2008

It doesn't really matter what we think because you only respond defensively to the comments against him and positively to the ones that say its okay.

I think you've already made up your mind.


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