-- Posted by Reeses at 10:10 am on Nov. 3, 2006 Hello everyone, how you guys doing today. Well i have a serious issue were i would like to discuss. it might not be a big deal to you guys, but however to me it is. To read what you guys have to say, will be greatly appreciated. See i never had an boyfriend, well let me correct myself i have. lets say us two did see eye to eye. we fought mostly everyday. but however i am going out w/ a loving caring person. and i care for him greatly. however i feel like i might be slowly  losing him, due to school. we hardly see each other, and the semester that is come in spring, will be quite stressful. he inform me that everything is going to be ok, and that i should have hope. that he will remain truthful w/ me, and that i am the only girl he See's as for right now. see i do have hope, but at times i don't. After talking to him about such matter, i cried my eyes out, and i got very upset, and i don't quite no why. i don't understand my feelings, i don't know why i cried. but however i did. i felt this pain, and emptiness inside me. is this love, or lust. -- Posted by trobell98 at 10:20 am on Nov. 3, 2006 i dont think anyones how to answer this.. -- Posted by wOlF at 10:21 am on Nov. 3, 2006 When two people are together, but not seeing each other every day, they start to fall out.  You guys aren't seeing eye to eye.  Things might look bad but you can most likely pull out of it; with a lot of work anyways.  You need to find away to stay close to each other.  When you aren't with him, you are probably with other people, developing friendships that could turn into something more. You definitely need to find a way to be with him more.  Doing new and exciting things that will bring you two closer together.  Invite him over for dinner so he gets to know your family and get to know his.  Basically, you need to take your relationship to the next level. Another thing that might happen, I am sorry to say, is that it might need to be ended.  You said that he said "and that i am the only girl he See's as for right now."  That implies that he might see someone else, maybe even behind your back.  If that is a possibility, then just end the relationship because it won't be worth it. You have a decision that you need to make and I wish you the best of luck with it.