-- Posted by HeartMittens38 at 4:33 am on Jan. 1, 2007 I have this same sex friend that I get very jealous over whenever she is with somebody else, guy or gilr.  I think perhaps she feels the same as me...I think she may be a lesbian based on her actions towards me...  I was wondering if anybody could tell me if extreme jelousy is a sign that I am gay or just immature.  Its driving me nuts that I think about her all the time and never tell her.   -- Posted by KeiraOasis at 4:53 am on Jan. 1, 2007 It sounds a tad possessive, then again you could be gay or maybe even bi, it depends on whether or not you'd want to "do naughty things" with/to her. Jealous happens to everyone but dont let it destroy your relationship. All ma love Keira -- Posted by MsCaesi at 9:56 pm on Jan. 9, 2007 Unless you find yourself physically aroused around your friend, I dont think you are homosexual at all. Based on what you have said, I think that you are a little possessive of her and may be even a little jealous of her in the fact that she has other friends. In what ways do you think that she may be a lesbian? -- Posted by princessashleyt at 1:07 am on Jan. 10, 2007 I think it's just deep friendship and the fear of losing it, nothing to 'worry about'. p.s. I'm bi anyway so I think there's nothing to worry about liking other girls anyway. -- Posted by kka at 12:37 pm on Jan. 29, 2007 if you are serious of your same sex friend, it could just mean that you want more attention with him or her...now if you see yourself being intimate with that individual then no doubt ur gay, but if u still like men then ur a bisexual. -- Posted by kka at 12:38 pm on Jan. 29, 2007 lesbians are better, who needs men lol