-- Posted by MsCaesi at 3:37 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Believe me, this is going to be one of the most ridiculous things that you will ever read..and i apologize for it being long. It all started yesterday, My Mother baked a pan of brownies..half way through the pan I cut a brownie out of the center and my step dad flipped out and threw away the entire pan because i didnt eat the brownies in order--you apparently need to eat the one on the side first. My mom confronts him and they yell. Today, apparently I put the parmesan cheese on the wrong shelf in the refridgerator so my step dad hid the cheese in the cabinet. I couldnt find it and then my mom bitched at him for being so childish. Then to add icing to the cake, we didnt have dinner at the table, so my step dad flips out and yells at my mother, tells her to move her car so he can go out to eat. She tells him to stop being childish and they have been screaming ever since. I came home from dropping my sister off at her g.s meeting and my mother was crying.. I can still here them screaming in the garage.. My question is..why is he such a douchebag?! -- Posted by DthFlame666 at 3:38 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 sounds like ur dad has OCT -- Posted by ladyvols1000 at 3:39 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 hey i am really sorry -- Posted by kissx3 at 3:41 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 aww i feel bad, but i dont know why hes being an ass -- Posted by melodramatic at 3:41 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 That's crazy. My parents are just really overprotective and paranoid, but it seems like you have it worse. My parents don't usually fight or anything :[, im sorry that happened. Maybe your  dad has some real physcological problems so just be very passive and patient with him, as well as with your mom. comfort her when she is crying, but don't interfere when they are yelling at each other -- Posted by cougar203 at 3:41 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 your step dad is a sicko. -- Posted by groovygirl at 3:41 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Your step dad sounds extremly strange sorry to say! -- Posted by MsCaesi at 3:43 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Quote: from groovygirl at 3:41 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Your step dad sounds extremly strange sorry to say! Hey no hard feelings I completely agree. I think he is an idiot--he needs to grow up and realize your family is more important than the positioning of the contents in the refrigerator. -- Posted by RMDragon1819 at 3:44 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Sound like he's one of those kinda people that are controlling and anal to the point he wants things done a certain way or it doesn’t work at all (like my step dad). I'm sorry your step dads a asshole. -- Posted by JessieWolf at 3:45 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 has he always been like that???? i'm sorry for u and ur mother and siblings -- Posted by jamesthekid at 3:45 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 omg i would of laughed at him if i was  you... -- Posted by MsCaesi at 3:46 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Quote: from RMDragon1819 at 3:44 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Sound like he's one of those kinda people that are controlling and anal to the point he wants things done a certain way or it doesn’t work at all (like my step dad). I'm sorry your step dads a asshole.   Yeah. He always yells at us and tells us that we are spoiled little brats and that we think the world revolves around us..but you can see that he wants everything his way..all time..and i mean everything. -- Posted by MsCaesi at 3:47 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 Quote: from JessieWolf at 3:45 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 has he always been like that???? i'm sorry for u and ur mother and siblings It used to be a lot worse when I was younger. He had been really good lately, not getting all bent out of shape over stupid stuff...and then all of a sudden over the past two days he has been super anal over everything--I think he is on his period or something..lol -- Posted by Just Joe at 4:24 pm on Jan. 26, 2007 It sounds to me that your dad isn't a douchebag, but has a medical problem with him. Maybe OCD. However, i think the best thing to do is show your mom you still love her and hug her loads and tell her you love her - it will make her feel so wanted. Just ignore your dad for now. -- Posted by lilac at 9:21 am on Jan. 27, 2007 Maybe he needs anger management. -- Posted by vieve at 2:42 pm on Jan. 27, 2007 as mean as it sounds say."would everybody stop yelling when you know exactly whats going on her. would somebody please let me know -- Posted by nanayangel at 8:54 pm on Jan. 27, 2007 I'm really sorry to hear that... Maybe there are some things that made all the anger build up inside of him... So when he's near explosion he blows up even at the smallest things... I hope it'll be okay soon... Anyways, I'm angel, a new member... -- Posted by MsCaesi at 9:43 pm on Jan. 27, 2007 UPDATE: Things are all good in the house now. My parents aren't fighting anymore and my step dad has put his childish antics behind him. thanks for all the advice! -- Posted by nanayangel at 10:35 pm on Jan. 27, 2007 That's nice to hear... :) -- Posted by crazybrit999 at 2:17 pm on Jan. 28, 2007 my 10 your old brother is more mature then him :/ -- Posted by bball beanie at 10:00 am on Jan. 29, 2007 well every person is different and you can't choose your parents so.....live with what you got. Unfortumatly your fater is immature and childish (no offence), other than that depending on your age, i would say move out so that you dont have to deal with the immaturaty of your dad. If your parents are having issues maby  you could move out with your mom