-- Posted by Anonymous at 3:49 am on Feb. 7, 2007 I hate her so much she keeps talking behind my back and screaming at me and making other people hate me i hate her , because of her i got hormones problems and stress-hives in my body it is more than i can stand i don't know what to do anymore I wish i can not care for what she says and be strong and don't get emotionally hurt because of her mean words. I will leave this home in 9 months but it's too much already ..... -- Posted by shell2006 at 3:53 am on Feb. 7, 2007 hey i no running away never solved anything but maby if you stade with a friend for a while or somebody nutral and you both had some time apart rather than being in eachothers faces things might calm down a bit i have a simular thing with my mum and time apart helps us -- Posted by x FENRIS x at 3:54 am on Feb. 7, 2007 This is a kind of conflict that I'm sure you don't need. A parent - child rivalry is never pretty. It sounds like you're counting down the days 'till you get out of home, but it doesn't neccessarily have to be like that. It is apparent that you both have some strong feelings of dislike for each other. That much is obvious. It also seems like you are both getting too cought up in this rivalry to worry about yourselves. Perhaps there's just something that you don't like about her which isn't getting addressed. Is there anything that you do like about her? If so, it might be a good idea to tell her. I suggest something like, "look, there are many things I don't like about the way you do stuff, but admittedly, you do *this* really well." This sort of thing helps to ease the tension and stress of the whole situation for both of you. -- Posted by Heather90 at 4:40 am on Feb. 7, 2007 I felt the same way about my parents. They upset me so much I got really ill. I think the best thing for you to do is have some time apart and when you are both calmer talk to each other in a civilised manner - don't shout or get stroppy or upset, remain calm. Have someone with you when you do this. Even if you mum shouts be dignified amd civilised. -- Posted by lilmann at 4:45 am on Feb. 7, 2007 i dont hate her i just disagree with her sometimes -- Posted by tacky at 2:14 pm on Feb. 13, 2007 my mom does the same thing at times. But i dont really hate her. Maybe you guys should try and spend some time together or apart. one of these days she wont be around and you kno u'll miss her. -- Posted by lone101 at 9:47 pm on Feb. 27, 2007 Look even though she does that She's still your mom.My mom's worse.But no matter wat she will alaways be your mom. Just take time to talk to her discuss your fellings wit her.