-- Posted by Cake and Sodomy at 11:30 am on Mar. 24, 2007 Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now. And I really feel an attraction to him. Not just sexual/physical but mental/emotional. Anyway, lately we haven't been talking much. He's hardly ever online, and barely calls me. I called him today and we talked for 2 minutes 29 seconds. When I got off the phone I cried because I feel like he's ignoring me. I;m not sure if I should end the relationship or just ride it out. I really like him but I'm confused. And tonight we were supposed to go to a concert and he blew me off to go with some of his friends. -- Posted by memoriesinfminor at 11:31 am on Mar. 24, 2007 talk to him about it first. if he doesnt change. fuck it. -- Posted by Ndskewll at 11:31 am on Mar. 24, 2007 I don't know. It seems like he's not really happy in the relationship anymore, I think you should ask him how he feels. -- Posted by ManipulativeBitch at 11:32 am on Mar. 24, 2007 End it. Plain and simple. It's easier said than done, but if you're in a 1-way relationship, it's not worth it. You deserve better than being ignored and blown off. Find a man who's going to make you HIS number 1 priority. -- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 11:32 am on Mar. 24, 2007 Oh... wow... well I can tell you that if my girlfriend wants to go to a concert, she comes first before all my other friends. I guess we're all different but that part of your post gave me the impression that the relationship doesn't mean much to him. I think you should have a talk with him before just ending the relationship though. Tell him how you feel and get his take on it. Decide what to do after that. -- Posted by blueeyedshortie at 11:34 am on Mar. 24, 2007 wait if its for the right reasons otherwize forget it. -- Posted by Rastafarian at 11:36 am on Mar. 24, 2007 In this situation I suggest you talk to him about it. If you feel ignored, he needs to know, maybe there is something going on for him that is pushing you two apart, maybe he doesn't like you anymore, or even maybe he is ignorant of the fact that he is even hurting you, doesn't realize it. If you raise the point, and if he still feels for you then I'm sure he'll try to pay more attnetion to you and devote more time to making you happy. Remember communication and expressing how you feel in a relationship is a key to a healthy relationship. Best of luck. -- Posted by lovenoelgallagher at 4:37 pm on Mar. 24, 2007 I say ask him to tell you truthfully what's going on. Something happened in my life a few days ago that made me act bitchy for no reason to all my friends just cause I felt I needed to let anger out somewhere. Maybe you did something that makes him feel uncomfortable or worried or some kind of emotion that he's hiding and the best thing to do would be talk about it. If he doesn't say anything, screw it, its over. He's not anything special if he's that kind of guy. -- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 10:52 pm on Mar. 24, 2007 Rastafarian is absolutely correct. Communication definitely is important. -- Posted by Scui at 11:13 pm on Mar. 24, 2007 Yeah, what Rastafarian said.