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-- Posted by Saragirl500 at 4:20 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
Okay; I like this guy; and I think he likes me back; but he has a girlfriend; so what should I do? Because he seemed to hint he liked me last nite. Should I tell him I like him or keep my big mouth shut?
-- Posted by snaphappyalex at 4:20 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
Gotta tell him.
-- Posted by Briley 07 at 4:20 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
Fuck him hard
-- Posted by Tigerhawk at 4:21 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
Keep your mouth shut as long as he has a girlfriend!
-- Posted by note to self at 4:22 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
tell him
-- Posted by JAK9173 at 4:22 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
wait it out its only a matter of time
-- Posted by Saragirl500 at 4:23 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
A matter of time no. He's moving to moses lake next week possibly.
-- Posted by TBongo at 4:24 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
jesus should be the only guy you like until youre married (preferably to jesus)
-- Posted by Saragirl500 at 4:25 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
Okay Tbongo; I am not talking about having sex. I just like the guy,
-- Posted by Rastafarian at 4:26 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
This is a serious situation where you must question yourself. Do you want him to be with you at potentially the cost of both your integrities? (you stealing him from his girl, and/or him cheating on his girl) Really it comes down to values and compromise, although it may seem best just to be upfront and honest with your feelings (in most cases it is...), in this situation, will it hurt and damage other things you don't necessarily want them to? Like what if he doesn't like you? Then he thinks you're trying to take him away from his girlfriend. Really not such a great idea. However, on the flip side, just being honest about it does confront the issue and bring it up to face, and if you're worried about the potential girlfriend issue after he has expressed an interest in you, talk to him about it. Problem solve, because we don't want someone unecessarily hurt due to the drama of relationships, and emotions. Best of luck
-- Posted by yoursForeverxx at 4:40 pm on Mar. 30, 2007
I think telling him is the best idea. Whether he has a girlfriend or not, not telling him will just leave you wondering what could have happened, and though you will get over him in time, you will always be wondering. So go for it.
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