-- Posted by fruitlady at 9:28 am on April 27, 2007 ok well i dont know where to post this, as it could become a massive rant.. yer aniways today my best mate was mega harsh. i was in the form room at lunch (where me and all my mates hang round and theses boys who i dont like) we was talking as usual and it got onto the subject of boyfriends and stuff. well because she is like my best mate i told her ages ago what i had done with my boyfriend which was fingering. well today because she sooooooooooo fucking fancies this one guy she goes! guess what leahs done with john? and the whole room went quiet and she said "leah got fingered by john" i was sooo shocked that she blurted this out i was like omg your like my best mate and you said that. but because the whole room was like full of boys they all started to laugh and go ewww! i was so embarrased and tried to laugh it off. but it made me too upset to think a best mate did that. i ran out of room. later after lunch next lesson she was acting all pally pally with me i was like     but now i dont know what to do! its going to be all round my year group by monday! like i fuckin need anymore taunts at school! its bad enough as it is. no i just feel like crying when i think about it. i just dont know what to do anymore. fuckig get treated like shit. i thought friends were meant to be like your saviours in life!! (well what i thought but not anymores) if your still reading this thank you for listening i feel that when i share my problems it helps me to cool down about it  xx -- Posted by hateyall at 9:30 am on April 27, 2007 I AINT READING THAT SHIT and your a fucking nasty whore -- Posted by Death of rats at 9:30 am on April 27, 2007 ...And the problem is? -- Posted by beko at 9:32 am on April 27, 2007 Well, you can't blame your friend for saying 'what she wants', honey..listen babe... EVERYBODY FINGERS EVERYONE, You think people believe 'wow, thats incredible!' So what,.. your friend made a mistake. GET. OVER. IT. I know you're embarassed but your not the only girl in the world to have a vagina, and yes.. people do have fingers! So please dear.. get over it, forget it, if your an adult you'll forgive your friend. She made a mistake for fuck sake get over it you silly cow -- Posted by EHW at 9:34 am on April 27, 2007 ask her y she did tht if shes just doin i 2 get a lad shes nt a tru frend -- Posted by x3geekx3 at 9:35 am on April 27, 2007 everyone at my school has sex let alone gets fingered, and everyone knows about it just ignor those people, youve got further in a relationship then they have they're just jealous why r the people on this topic swearing at her? she has a right to be embarrased i would be if i was her fucking give people a break -- Posted by fruitlady at 9:37 am on April 27, 2007 Quote: from x3geekx3 at 5:35 pm on April 27, 2007 everyone at my school has sex let alone gets fingered, and everyone knows about it just ignor those people, youve got further in a relationship then they have they're just jealous why r the people on this topic swearing at her? she has a right to be embarrased i would be if i was her fucking give people a break my point exactly -- Posted by Anonymous at 9:41 am on April 27, 2007 Quote: from fruitlady at 9:37 am on April 27, 2007 Quote: from x3geekx3 at 5:35 pm on April 27, 2007 everyone at my school has sex let alone gets fingered, and everyone knows about it    just ignor those people, youve got further in a relationship then they have they're just jealous    why r the people on this topic swearing at her? she has a right to be embarrased i would be if i was her    fucking give people a break my point exactly fucking ho -- Posted by CatPower at 9:42 am on April 27, 2007 Yeah, I know how you feel, exept with me they got to know that we had had sex and not that other stuff... I also got mad at the person who told, and have had troubles trusting that person again. You should tell your friend that you didn't like what she did, and hopefully she'll understand. It was a stupid thing of her to do, when you're obviously not comfortable with it. -- Posted by DancinOnTheMoon at 9:44 am on April 27, 2007 What is wrong with you people? Geez. Anyway...you should talk to your friend and tell her how much that hurt you. Let her know you'd never do that to her and would really appreciate it if she wouldn't use your private life as leverage to get some guy. How was that supposed to work anyway? As for everyone finding out...fuck 'em. They're either jealous or incredibly immature if they make fun of you for this. Just ingore them and it'll die down. -- Posted by susie2324 at 9:46 am on April 27, 2007 NEXT TIME TELL FRIENDS YOU TRUST!!! -- Posted by fruitlady at 9:47 am on April 27, 2007 Quote: from susie2324 at 5:46 pm on April 27, 2007 NEXT TIME TELL FRIENDS YOU TRUST!!! i will dont worry sue. you will be the first to kno. -- Posted by JustBe at 11:20 am on April 27, 2007 Just be confident with it. There's nothing you can do about it now so the best thing is to just be proud and say "hell yeah, I got fingered". -- Posted by SorrowsOfSpring at 10:17 pm on April 27, 2007 Why are people fucking spazzing at her? She has a right to be embarrased and her friend shouldn't have done that anyways! So it may be something that happens all the time, it doesn't need to be known by everyone! I'd bitch at her a bit! She didn't have any right to do that! Forgive your friend later, since it's not worth losing a friend over, but make her learn her lesson! -- Posted by Shadesome at 2:12 am on April 28, 2007 Wow. She sounds  really jealous of you. She has no right to tell anyone what you tell her in confident. Thats not cool. She really messed up. You might want to rethik telling her such things in the future. -- Posted by xoxo1234 at 4:24 am on April 28, 2007 Oh, wow... have you talked to her about it? That's what I would suggest doing first. Tell her she really hurt you and proved herself untrustworthy. Say you thought you could trust her and you thought she was your best friend, but apparently she doesn't know what best friend means. If she apologizes and promise to never do it again, then I'd let it go. Everyone makes mistakes. But if she says anything else, I don't know what you're talking about, Jeez it's not that big a deal etc. then she DOES NOT deserve your friendship. Today she did not act like your best friend, and you should give her a chance to start again. But only if she wants it. If she makes it clear that she doesn't, find some new friends, you don't want her in your life anyway =/. -- Posted by Annastasia at 4:52 am on April 28, 2007 I'm glad you got this out, it can sometimes make things a lot clearer if we can see it written out on paper, or even a forum! I think the first thing I would concentrate on doing is trying to calm down a little bit. Maybe take some time by yourself, read a book, listen to some music, take a warm bath - something nice for you. Then. You can figure out what you want to do. We think more rationally when we are calmer, and this is not the place to make any split second decisions in the heat of your anger/upset-ness. I would suggest talking to her, as others have. If you feel too upset right now, give it a couple of days. Just try to stay away from her, as much as you can. In terms of school, and the kids there, you can either just ignore it as much as possible, which tends to make people get bored of it quicker, or you can kind of act absolutely fine with it. This tends to make people think it isn't quite so newsworthy. This site has some good ideas as well. Take care. =) -- Posted by everybuddiesfool16 at 6:03 pm on April 29, 2007 That's not a friend.... it's kinda like what one of my (now ex)"best friends" did to me. I got drunk and gave one of my guy friends a blow job, it was my first time and the guy is known for getting around if you know what i mean... but people that fuck you over once you have to punish them for atleast a little bit... maybe not talk to her for a month or so till your completely over the whole situation, take her back and if she fucks you over again get rid of her fake ass