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-- Posted by albinolover at 7:20 pm on April 28, 2007

ok so at school, im teased by alot of people. like some boys insolt me a lot. then theses girls that are
popler and snobs treat me like im a doll. it hurts. i really am sick of it. so one day last week i burst and was sent to ISS(in school sepechin). plez help. i tried to ignor them but they know wat gets to me. PLEZ HLEP!!!!!!!  pm me if u have a REALLY GOOD SULOTION!

                                 thanks


-- Posted by deadteddiebear77 at 7:21 pm on April 28, 2007

dunno. we never had bullies....... we had jackasses and pricks. but no  bullies... noone ever took our shit.. if dey did. we just beat da living daylights outta them


-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:22 pm on April 28, 2007

Honestly, I got my boyfriend to deal with them because of the people who was bothering me was his cousin. They had been doing it to me for a good three years, so.... I couldn't really take it anymore.


-- Posted by albinolover at 7:22 pm on April 28, 2007

ummm ok................ what are pricks?


-- Posted by rawrr at 7:23 pm on April 28, 2007

well, you're not a guy, otherwise i'd tell you to show them you dont take shit from people.

basically anyone that has given me a hard time, i either laugh it off and move on with w/e i was doing or i get in their face and tell them that the next time they say shit they are gonna get their ass beat.


-- Posted by Rhino 17 at 7:23 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from albinolover at 7:22 pm on April 28, 2007


ummm ok................ what are pricks?

ass holes


-- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 7:24 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from albinolover at 7:20 pm on April 28, 2007


ok so at school, im teased by alot of people. like some boys insolt me a lot. then theses girls that are
popler and snobs treat me like im a doll. it hurts. i really am sick of it. so one day last week i burst and was sent to ISS(in school sepechin). plez help. i tried to ignor them but they know wat gets to me. PLEZ HLEP!!!!!!!  pm me if u have a REALLY GOOD SULOTION!

                                  thanks


They're horrible for picking on a special kid.


-- Posted by Stupidfacex at 7:26 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from TNAwrestlingfan at 10:24 pm on April 28, 2007


Quote: from albinolover at 7:20 pm on April 28, 2007

ok so at school, im teased by alot of people. like some boys insolt me a lot. then theses girls that are  
 popler and snobs treat me like im a doll. it hurts. i really am sick of it. so one day last week i burst and was sent to ISS(in school sepechin). plez help. i tried to ignor them but they know wat gets to me. PLEZ HLEP!!!!!!! pm me if u have a REALLY GOOD SULOTION!  

  thanks


They're horrible for picking on a special kid.


That really wasn't necessary. They asked for help, not a spelling and grammar lesson.


-- Posted by cgman at 7:31 pm on April 28, 2007

Last time someone talked shit about me, He found his ass in ER. Though that is my solution. Honestly there is not much you can do other than explode or just take it. You can vent here and to other people which might help keep you from bottling up too much. Just don't get in situations where they can make fun of you. I know that is not always possible but try to cut down your contact with them to the minimum. Also remember that they might have their fun now but you will probably someday be their boss.


-- Posted by KweenZ at 7:31 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from TNAwrestlingfan at 7:24 pm on April 28, 2007


Quote: from albinolover at 7:20 pm on April 28, 2007

ok so at school, im teased by alot of people. like some boys insolt me a lot. then theses girls that are  
 popler and snobs treat me like im a doll. it hurts. i really am sick of it. so one day last week i burst and was sent to ISS(in school sepechin). plez help. i tried to ignor them but they know wat gets to me. PLEZ HLEP!!!!!!! pm me if u have a REALLY GOOD SULOTION!  

  thanks


They're horrible for picking on a special kid.


lmfao..
lol anyways
you need to stand up for yourself.. that ignoring shit doesnt work!


-- Posted by euphgirl91 at 7:32 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from albinolover at 10:22 pm on April 28, 2007


ummm ok................ what are pricks?

really annoying jerks


-- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 7:41 pm on April 28, 2007

Alright, alright... perhaps I was a little harsh. Sometimes I can't help myself.

Look kid, everyone knows that bullies look for easy targets. Stand up for yourself... all it takes is one time to shut them up. But you have to let them know that you're serious. Don't break eye contact as you're cussing them out and threatening their life.


-- Posted by albinolover at 7:44 pm on April 28, 2007

thank 4 the help but im looking more for something none vilonte that wont get me into Big truble


-- Posted by TNAwrestlingfan at 7:58 pm on April 28, 2007

Quote: from albinolover at 7:44 pm on April 28, 2007


thank 4 the help but im looking more for something none vilonte that wont get me into Big truble

Standing up for yourself doesn't always involve kicking someone's ass.


-- Posted by Beatrice at 1:14 am on April 29, 2007

Fighting back is not the answer. Tell your teacher, or year head, or your parents.


-- Posted by xoxo1234 at 1:52 am on April 29, 2007

What you really need to work on,as I told someone else yesterday, is not only ignoring the comments but not letting them effect you. You need to be able to brush them off and know that you're better then that -- no matter what they say just be able to be like, eh, whatever, I don't care, and I'm not gonna let whatever they say effect me.

That's one thing to work on, but another would be to tell the school guidence counselor or a teacher (guidance counselor is better, but you can talk to whoever you feel comfortable with). Explain to them the whole story, don't leave anything out. Don't feel bad about giving names or anything, these people were mean to you and you do not have to be nice to them in return.

Here are some websites on dealing with bullies that might be able to help you out. I did my best but I'm of course not an expert ;).

TeensHealth: Dealing With Bullying
Stop Bullying Now!
Students Against Violence Everywhere (SAVE): Dealing With Bullies Without Making Things Worse

Hope this helps & good luck!  


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