-- Posted by Anonymous at 5:41 pm on July 9, 2007 my college is located in a not so great area, it's in the city, so it's not the safest place. my parents are being really strict about it-- i can't wear shorts or tank tops, etc, things like that. it really isn't a great place, there have been cases of attacks and rape, robbery, etc. it's not a bad school, just a bad area. the thing is there are lots of activities i want to join that happen at night, 9/10 ish but they won't let me allow because of the time. i'm not even allowed to hang out with friends in their apartments or dorms because of the location. what can i do to convince them it's ok and i'll be safe? help help help. i live at home, it's not an option to move out so don't tell me to live outside. thanks -- Posted by ckM at 5:42 pm on July 9, 2007 hire the secret service. :D -- Posted by your poison at 11:05 pm on July 9, 2007 Quote: from ckM at 8:42 pm on July 9, 2007 hire the secret service. :D i second that. -- Posted by dreamweaver at 2:44 am on July 14, 2007 Get a cell phone and some good friends to hang out with.  Introduce them to your parents and let your parents get to know them.  Show your parents that your friends are trustworthy and will help you out when you're in a tough spot.