-- Posted by DropPony at 4:16 pm on July 24, 2007 I'm 21 and transferring from a community college to a university. I want to join the school's equestrian club and choir. My parents refuse to let me pay money to stay in these extra curricular activities, or any extra curricular activities for that matter. They will not let *me*, or them, pay to join. -- Posted by InsaneBlue at 4:17 pm on July 24, 2007 Ha, why would they care what you do with money as long as you have enough to get through college? -- Posted by baby tee at 4:18 pm on July 24, 2007 try persuading them -- Posted by Sadgurl at 4:20 pm on July 24, 2007 Aren't you old enough to do what you want with YOUR money!? -- Posted by letingyoudown at 4:34 pm on July 24, 2007 why are you even asking them just do it, if they pay for your school then you pay for the extras. you ARE 21 -- Posted by DropPony at 4:45 pm on July 24, 2007 I didn't ask their permission. I just brought up the fact that I was planning on joining those. Than they asked me if it costs extra to be involved. Of course it does! Than they said I won't be joining anything that costs more money, no matter who pays for it. -- Posted by baby tee at 4:49 pm on July 24, 2007 omg thats out of order if ur paying it with ur own money than u have the right 2 join -- Posted by DESKPOWER at 12:38 am on Aug. 11, 2007 Try persuading them -- Posted by Fraser Stewart at 3:49 am on Aug. 14, 2007 Its up to you what you do with you're own money