-- Posted by JellyBelly2007 at 11:29 am on Oct. 22, 2007 My boyfriend and I have been talking about sleeping with each other as we have been together nearly 5 months and we are both still virgins (we are both 18). There was a possibility we could have done it today, and I really wanted to and I think he did too, but neither of us wanted to make the first move and we didn't say anything about doing it anyway. Basically I'm just looking for advice on the best way to approach this. We usually start off by playing with each other, but how can I lead it to sex without seeming desperate and making sure he is happy to do it?