-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:01 am on Dec. 16, 2007 So we used to hang out/go to parties ll the time. Well this past month I call them and they call back too late. They say we can hang out after finals which is fine. They been hanging out with other people this whole month and I usually go with them but not anymore. So why is it i have to wait to hang out with them? Its so strange. I mean I keep myself occupied with stuff and other friends but I miss them. We hung out alot and now its nothing. I see them around every week and we talk and seem happy to talk to me. I dont get it. -- Posted by HijackTheBride at 11:08 am on Dec. 16, 2007 Maybe u changed dude. Why did you change? U were perfect? -- Posted by Jehovah at 11:10 am on Dec. 16, 2007 Maybe they have new friends and want to hang out with them more. Im sorry that they dont spend a lot of time with you anymore :(. This predicament happened to someone at my school. At school there used to be a group of about 5 people, who were all GOOD friends. Then near the middle of the school year, a popular fella from N.C. moved into my town and attended my school. The group of friends wanted to hang with the new cool guy, and they ended up deserting one person in the group that they didnt consider "cool enough" to hang with them anymore. It wasnt fair that he lost at least 4 friends just because of someone "cooler". But he soon realized that they were werent really good friends anyways. TC, maybe you should try to find new people to hang with. People that'll do more stuff with you. You deserve to be respected by friends, and they shouldnt ditch you.