-- Posted by Lillian11 at 10:25 am on Dec. 23, 2007 okay, my brother is leaving for baisic training in the marines in 22 days. we were always really close untill he graudauted last year and he went off and did his own things. now i'm getting really sad that he will be a changed person and we won't be as close as we were in the past. i want to do one last thing with him before he leaves so he knows that i really do care about how he will turn out. what could i do?