Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7  Next -- Posted by davjs at 7:58 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 After much research, I have learned that LiveWire members ask enough kissing related questions to warrant a sticky. This sticky's title will be called "How to Kiss" (moderators will not change the title). I'm not going to write it, well not on my own at least. We're all going to write it together, so let's get started! Submit your tips, techniques, and suggestions as replies to this topic. Once we have received enough replies, we will attempt to compile them into one easy to understand guide and repost the finished sticky. -- Posted by Light Assassin at 8:00 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 just do it. it really does come naturally, at least when you first start. then come here to add a little excitement... like nibbling on/ sucking lips, ears, kissing neck, etc. -- Posted by kaygerrr at 8:00 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 no sloppiness. -- Posted by Aria of Silence at 8:00 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 awh thats so cute! =) -- Posted by metacarPi at 8:00 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 got this from google -> The basics 1. Brush your teeth, get a good bath, nicely groomed and clean and fresh, before meeting the other person. There's nothing worse than kissing the rear end of a garbage truck 2. Get into a comfortable position - you can't kiss if your back feels like it's gonna break. Suggestion - Sit side by side on a comfy sofa. 3. Hold your lover , firmly but gently - don't cause pain. Suggestion would be to hold the shoulders, the neck or gently on the side of the face, one side or both sides. 4. Move your faces closer. Don't bump noses. Suggestion would be the guy angle his face slightly so you don't bump noses. 5. Kiss gently, normal closed lips kissing, and close your eyes. Closing your eyes increases the sensations you feel, and also sets the mood. 6. Continue kissing gently. Get comfortable with simple closed lips, lip-to-lip kissing before going anywhere else. 7. If fine till here, tentatively, slowly and lightly draw your tongue across the other person's lips. 8. Chances are from here, if the other person lightly parts her tongue, slowly explore the other person's tongue in a light licking motion. 9. The tongue has a very sensitive surface, which is why tongue to tongue is the essence of french kissing. 10. After you've tried lightly licking the other person's tongue, you can try sucking on it, wrestling with it ( see if you can hold it to the floor of her mouth ) and other things like that. 11. Explore the other areas of the mouth. Especially the roof of the mouth. Lightly lick, or tickle the area with your tongue. 12. Don't bite. whatever you do, don't bite. 13. Don't swing your tongue round and round like a windmill. Explore lightly, don't drill your way through. 14. Breathe through your nose. Breathe through your nose. I say again, breathe through your nose. 15. Follow so far? You can lightly use your hands too, lightly rubbing the other person. Suggestions, along the waist, along the back, the arms, especially the inside of the arm, the neck, maybe running your fingers through her hair. Again, don't cause pain. 16. Continue kissing. -- Posted by i am the man at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Use chap sticks and mouthwash -- Posted by woolo at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Forget everything you have ever heard or read about it, and just be in the moment! -- Posted by Cunning Stunt at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 To start, a few pecks on the lips are good. Then as things progess, it can get to frenching. Don't eat their face, though. Keeping the mouth as closed as possible while tounging is ideal. So, kiss, open your mouth a little bit and massage their tongue with yours and then close and kiss. Simple. Also, in the heat of passion, a little nibble on the lower lip is pretty sexy. -- Posted by wavelength84 at 8:02 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 this is from the topic i made back in the day for a guy first off, if youve never kissed any one before its  not pathetic or means your a little kid or antying like that. society puts too much pressure on people to kiss. but if you want to go for that kis, if you make the first move, things will definately happen faster. you can go for the kiss in a couple ways involving eye contact, physical contact, kiss. one good is eye contact, reach over and gently touch the other side of her face on the jawline and lightly pull her twoard you while you move closer to her at the same time. she'll get the idea and that will get things started. now to the actual kiss. its good to have your lips a little moist before hand, maybe by licking them and good breath and all that.  just put your lips against hers, not too hard, and do an action thats like opening and closing your mouth but soon after lightly put your tongue in her mouth after like ten seconds. if its your both of your first times, just take things slow and dont be afariad to take the lead. if the girl is more experiecned, she'll be moving her mouth and lips around, just go with what shes doing. dont at any point push your tongue in too mcuh, or let her do all the work. i kwno it will be new territory, but dont be afraid,kissing is very flowing and simple. some things you can try while making out- with mouth- suck her lip, nibble lip, lick her teeth (i knwo this sounds weir dbut its all good. ) kiss her face, ears, and once things start moving, neck, this really turns girls on. wiht your hands, rub/feel her face neck scalp, back, sides, and once shes turned on enoguh, boobs, ass. dont go for these right away though. dont be surprised if either of you starts breathing heavy of lightly moaning, this will turn each other on. other than that look on other things for kissing / making out on this site. hope everything goes well -- Posted by iwashere85 at 8:02 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 I have to be completely honest with you David, why not just add it to the Sexuality FAQ Sticky. I think it would be just as easy. -- Posted by hpblizz at 8:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Garlic breath = no-no. -- Posted by Aqueous at 8:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Take charge. Push him up against the wall. Kiss him rough, but gentle at the same time. Show him you're ready to go. -- Posted by BBallAsh23 at 8:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from iwashere85 at 11:02 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 I have to be completely honest with you David, why not just add it to the Sexuality FAQ Sticky. I think it would be just as easy. I can't believe the words I am going to say. iwasher85 does have a good idea! Kissing leads to sex... Bad idea kids!     -- Posted by i am the man at 8:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from iwashere85 at 11:02 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 I have to be completely honest with you David, why not just add it to the Sexuality FAQ Sticky. I think it would be just as easy. He's trying to prove a point here.   -- Posted by nickgrand2 at 8:03 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Slow and soft -- Posted by Light Assassin at 8:04 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from i am the man at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Use chap sticks and mouthwash chap stick tastes disgusting. try to stay away from it. -- Posted by i am the man at 8:05 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from noahjk at 11:04 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from i am the man at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Use chap sticks and mouthwash chap stick tastes disgusting. try to stay away from it. It smoothes the lips though after they get dry. -- Posted by Joiley at 8:05 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 A kiss is a kiss! I go MY-style! -- Posted by Light Assassin at 8:07 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from i am the man at 8:05 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from noahjk at 11:04 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Quote: from i am the man at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Use chap sticks and mouthwash chap stick tastes disgusting. try to stay away from it. It smoothes the lips though after they get dry. they dont get dry for a whileeee though, and sucking on a lip solves this problem. and they like it. -- Posted by SorryxSight at 8:11 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 After you get to kiss the person, and the mood sets in, everything leaps from there. Everything you've learned parts may come in handy, but you just go with it. -- Posted by pasqualerrr at 3:29 am on Jan. 5, 2008 do NOT open your eyes. one time while i was kissing my boyfriend, i peeked and found he was looking at me too. it was awwwkward, esp. being that close! -- Posted by fran1990 at 12:41 pm on Jan. 5, 2008 1. the important thing is to start slow - being overzealous is not a good idea. 2. tip your head slightly to one side (most people got to the right) 3. close your eyes - staring is rude 4. start with lips only slightly parted, touch lips once gently then again slightly more passionately, then just follow the pace and style of the other person 5. after a few moments gently touch their lips with your tongue, if they respond then you can gently open your mouth further and massage their tongue with yours. Remember: - avoid teeth bumping - dont use too much tongue or open your mouth to wide to start with - you can caress neck/hair/waist/back gently with fingertips. and  arse and chest if things are getting a bit more heated. -- Posted by Jettie12 at 4:34 pm on Jan. 5, 2008 I heard women fall for deer musk.  A couple rubs of that around the neck and it really doesn't matter how you kiss her. -- Posted by rand0mguy at 7:27 pm on Jan. 5, 2008 Quote: from woolo at 8:01 pm on Jan. 4, 2008 Forget everything you have ever heard or read about it, and just be in the moment! yea just go with the flow -- Posted by xoxdisturbedxox at 10:35 am on Jan. 6, 2008 just go for it and go with the flow. i was told "dont move your lips/open or close your mouth unless the boy does" but BE interactive but dont swalow them in lol have fun adn enjoy it! ;) -- Posted by candy wandy at 8:46 pm on Jan. 6, 2008 wow...kissing sounds so sexy -- Posted by miss massacre17 at 1:09 pm on Jan. 7, 2008 you guys make kissig sound like a job..in all reality kissing is an art form that has to come naturally. if you concentrate on what you learned or read it is just bad..you have to just let it come natural and go from there..but it has to just happen..take it from a lesbian..lol...i have kissed many girls and they tell me i'm an expert..but i dion't think.."oh this is gonna rock your world"..before i do it..i just do it..don't think..just do!!! -- Posted by Tavis at 2:45 pm on Jan. 7, 2008 Well, I'm not too experienced but I was told that I'm a really good kisser. Some things I just kept in my mind was, you go 80 percent of the way, and then let her come to you. Holding her is always a good thing to do, and make sure you turn your head just enough to not bump noses. I'll edit with more later. -- Posted by subway at 11:03 am on Jan. 8, 2008 Well, heres a good thing to do: slowly kiss the girl on the lips.. you don't want to rush into anything yet. Then gaze in each others eyes - always a good thing to do.. and then move back in for another kiss, only this time, kiss her on the lips, and then bite/nibble her upper lip, then french kiss her by using your tongue and just explore her mouth with your tongue and she should do the same back.. and you can do this for as long as you want. -- Posted by cyndalluvsu at 12:09 pm on Jan. 8, 2008 who cares about kissing just screw em Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7  Next