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-- Posted by arielsaysifly at 8:02 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

ok like my bf wants to have sex
he is not a virgin
but i am
i tould him we will see...mabey
should i do it or no
i am 15


-- Posted by jumbo55 at 8:02 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

sure, go for it


-- Posted by Aria of Silence at 8:02 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

if you feel ready.


-- Posted by snoopyloopy at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

i'm gonna say no, you shouldn't. of course, you'll end up doing it anyway, especially if he does a lot of sweet things for you.


-- Posted by penguinsrule at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

if you have to ask, the answer is no

if you have ANY doubts, the answer is no

if you don't want it too, the answer is no

shall i go on?


-- Posted by bubbly1189 at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

do whatever makes you happy.....you have to do what you want not what anyone else wants


-- Posted by scousemouse at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

you shouldnt be asking us.
you should know the answer
and if you dont know the answer
then its a no!


-- Posted by jareds girl at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

ONLY if you are ready. it doesnt matter if more people tell you yes or no. its YOUR decision and NO ONE elses.


-- Posted by Aixi at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

As long as he's not a dick user that wants your virginity.


-- Posted by dotty213 at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

If you have to ask us, no you should not


-- Posted by byebyebeautyful at 8:04 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

no. wait til your really ready not because he wants to. plus your young


-- Posted by greatescape at 8:04 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

If youre already having doubt...no


-- Posted by Almost a Surgeon at 8:04 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

Yeah, why even ask us... you're going to do it anyways; screw up your life.... Your future husband will resent that... your bf will fuck you and forget you


-- Posted by Tracklete110 at 8:04 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

if you arent ready dont do it
you will regret it forever


-- Posted by itgirl at 8:04 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

nope only because you asked don't doubt yourself ... foreplay instead haha


-- Posted by hawaiinchuck at 8:05 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

If you are comfortable with it, and think that this guy is the one you want to lose it too, then go for it.

If you don't feel that though, i would not have sex, and wait until you find the right guy, or the right moment.


-- Posted by Daisy033194 at 8:05 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

personnaly i think u shouldnt but if u feel a strong connection with him and youre willing to give him your body... go ahead. just think it out thoroughly.


-- Posted by yerneh2002 at 8:05 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

if you are ready and want to accept the consequences of your actions.


-- Posted by Brawler at 8:06 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

there's a lot of factors involved.
-your age (ur 15, how old is he?)
-how many other girls has he slept with?
-how long have you been together?
-how long do you plan on being together?
-are YOU ready
tha last one is the main thing, it's YOUR body, not his, if YOU are not ready for this, then no one can make you do anything. If he really loves you, then he'll understand and accept the fact that you dont want to do anything, and if he gets upset, he doesnt love you. Simple as that, you shouldn't be with a person who only likes you for your body, you eed to be with someone who loves YOU.


-- Posted by Ju5tin at 8:06 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

If you have to ask questions like this, then the answer is no.


-- Posted by CoLoSsEuM GhOsT at 8:06 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

no your only 15, go have some ice cream


-- Posted by bexz10 at 8:09 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

no, way to early
and you're doubting it


-- Posted by hellolovey17 at 8:11 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

its up to you


-- Posted by angelbabyx4 at 8:17 pm on Jan. 30, 2008

i am 15 and the same thing is happining to me! but i really want to and im staying the night at his house on valentines day.. but the only thing is im hella sccrd that it will hurt like ppl always say it does


-- Posted by LaPetite at 1:26 am on Jan. 31, 2008

Quote: from penguinsrule at 5:03 am on Jan. 31, 2008


if you have to ask, the answer is no

if you have ANY doubts, the answer is no

if you don't want it too, the answer is no

shall i go on?


You're right.


-- Posted by draakprinses at 8:48 pm on Jan. 31, 2008

No, don't do it. If you were truly ready, you wouldn't have to ask that question.


-- Posted by Fairy05 at 3:01 pm on Feb. 9, 2008

i think not, but it is all up to you.


-- Posted by nat b at 7:52 pm on Mar. 2, 2008

Quote: from penguinsrule at 8:03 pm on Jan. 30, 2008


if you have to ask, the answer is no

if you have ANY doubts, the answer is no

if you don't want it too, the answer is no

shall i go on?


i agree 100%


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