-- Posted by xxxrealxxx at 4:01 pm on Feb. 5, 2008 i went back to my bf after we split for about a month not yesterday but the day before.he called me so i went ...everythin was cool,it was nice bein with him again(we slept togther yea).but like before he always used to ask me if im staying round his...and usually said yea..well this time he didnt... and he called me yesterday at like 10 pm and gave me a lift home but still didnt ask if i was sleeping round his again. so i text him when he dropped me home saying 'ur a fucking user..get the fuck and then dont wanna see me after... ' and he didnt call me after that. and all of today he aint foned me . did he just use me?and why do u think he aint called me? why did he do this?it just makes me feel useless and like i must have somethin wrong wid me what should i do?wot do u think? -- Posted by Nukez0red at 4:03 pm on Feb. 5, 2008 It's your own damn fault. -- Posted by The Immortal Lie at 4:10 pm on Feb. 5, 2008 be nice. -- Posted by nat b at 7:56 pm on Mar. 2, 2008 well...he didnt call you because of that text you sent. and im sorry to say, that he did use you. two positives (in a sea of negatives) #1 your not adding anyone to your "list" #2 learn from your situation - take the way you feel, and remeber what it feels like to be used. gain respect for yourself and dont sleep around -- Posted by xoperfectionxo at 7:01 pm on Mar. 6, 2008 He is your ex for a reason so if you are having sex without a label, then yes, he is just in it for the sex. If not you would be his girlfriend. I am soooo sorry you are feeling so down. Try not to cave in again.