-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:02 pm on Feb. 19, 2008 So this one night my housemates and I went out together and drank and were having a great time. We get home and I decide I need to take a shower after dancing on the floor and running around in my socks...my female roommate was on our bathroom floor hugging the toilet, so I decide to go down to the boys shower. My other roommate follows me...he told me we were talking and I was sitting in the shower with all of my clothes on and then shut the door and turned the shower on...but then took all of my clothes off...he could've left, but he stayed. next thing I know we're fooling around in my bed...let me remind you he has a girlfriend... and I'm definitely not that girl. So this is a really hard situation for me! What is the best way to deal with this? -- Posted by ToHimWhoDied at 9:04 pm on Feb. 19, 2008 Be honest about it, as much as it sucks.... -- Posted by Anonymous at 9:11 pm on Feb. 19, 2008 We've talked about it....but it just doesnt seem worked out yet. I've told him that we both messed up and it meant nothing. And hes the type to joke around - and he asked me if I would let him do it again and such. We basically just talked about WHAT happened...not the...how and why. how do I bring it up so its not awkward? How do I keep his attention? -- Posted by JadedIcara at 9:13 pm on Feb. 19, 2008 Sounds like he wants a fuck buddy.. and you don't. Tell him straight up that a drunken mistake is exactly that - a mistake. His girlfriend deserves his respect, and if he can't give that to her, then he needs to break up with her, and then you two can talk (if that's what you want from him). -- Posted by Anonymous at 11:09 pm on Feb. 19, 2008 hes been talking about all the things he doesnt like about his current girlfriend...and ive always thought that there was a sexual tension between us, but I wasn't sure. Now I don't know how to talk to him about his girlfriend situation, I feel Like I don't have any place to say anything about their relationship. UGH! this makes me feel so shitty!