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-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:23 am on Feb. 20, 2008
I'm at school...college...right now. Im sitting in a fairly large area, with my laptop computer. I'm alone..but there are a LOT of people here. I never have anyone to talk to on any of my breaks. I feel like such a fucking loser, always just sitting here by myself. I don't know anyone other than the people in my program...and they're all in class right now. Don't say "just meet people"..it's not that easy.
-- Posted by blueelectricguitar at 9:24 am on Feb. 20, 2008
What about clubs? Are there any societies you can join? x
-- Posted by bluestreak at 9:24 am on Feb. 20, 2008
meet people
-- Posted by bluestreak at 9:25 am on Feb. 20, 2008
haha...just messing...youre not a loser just because you dont no anybody
-- Posted by sexii xo at 9:25 am on Feb. 20, 2008
lol i dont think anyone cares! that sounds exactly like me every thursday when i have my 2 hour break.. i have no one to talk to either
-- Posted by paris in flames at 9:26 am on Feb. 20, 2008
to the person next to you go like "OMG I LOVE YOUR SHOES" =Oask where they got them =]
-- Posted by fishboybmx at 9:26 am on Feb. 20, 2008
sometimes we all feel like were alone, but as soon as your with your friends again, you wont feel that way. and as far as other people go, i dont think they really care as much as you may think, i know i overly eggagerate how other people percieve me in my head, but in all actuality, they probably just think your doing homework or something :) so cheer up :-D
-- Posted by Sockaloo at 9:26 am on Feb. 20, 2008
I'm the same way at my school. No worries. :D It's like that for tons of people. Just talk to us. :)
-- Posted by ENicole at 9:27 am on Feb. 20, 2008
...j/k, i argee w/ blueelectric, you should totally try to join some clubs/societies or something (if there are any) or try going to the towns "hotspots"!
-- Posted by Shyloh at 9:29 am on Feb. 20, 2008
So? It's college, not high school. You're supposed to be independent. Just sit there and look busy, I bet people aren't assuming you're a loser like you think they are. And I doubt you're the only person by yourself.
-- Posted by katyrose at 9:32 am on Feb. 20, 2008
i know its not that easy im sorry
-- Posted by visualcandyxo at 9:36 am on Feb. 20, 2008
compliment/ask a question to someone that sits near you surely you have friends there from old schools that you can hang with sitting there with a laptop wont get your friends, it will put people off coming up to talk to you.. instead, try joining aby clubs your schooll has so you can find people with the same interests as you sorry but thats all i got.. good luck
-- Posted by Just Waiting Here at 9:37 am on Feb. 20, 2008
Well, being on livewire won't help any :P. Everyone in your program is in class? That always sucks. Well, like others said, you could always go with a club or something, and that way you'll meet more people, probably one's that have some similar interests if you join in a club or other activity. That'll give you smething to talk about too, if you just have trouble starting up a conversation. Anyway, good luck with it! When you get a chance, talk to someone new, I guess. Whether it be in one of your classes, or something. It's worth a shot. Oh, and others have said, it doesn't make you a loser. Like Shyloh said, most people will assume you're just doing work. And just because you don't always have someone to hang out with during a break or something doesn't mean you're a loser... personally, I like having breaks to myself, lol.
-- Posted by Anonymous at 9:39 am on Feb. 20, 2008
and it doesnt help that across the fucking table from me is this girl making out with her bf..i feel like telling them to go get a fucking room.
-- Posted by SilverDoor at 9:42 am on Feb. 20, 2008
Quote: from Anonymous at 12:39 pm on Feb. 20, 2008
and it doesnt help that across the fucking table from me is this girl making out with her bf..i feel like telling them to go get a fucking room.
People will want to meet you less if you do that. You should just go to the local starbucks or something like that, they are great places to meet people.
-- Posted by BBallAsh23 at 9:38 am on Feb. 24, 2008
Just say hello to the closest person near you. Sometimes a complete stranger is nice. Most college kids are nice, just trying to get their education. Bored waiting between classes. Or you could try some social networking sites, makes breaking the ice easier.
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