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-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

So me and this guy are getting kinda serious.
He knows that I have a past that includes A LOT of drugs.
I told him that I quit and have changed my life around. I just kinda left out that I still do take pain pills and smoke weeds once in a while when my back acts up.
I am willing to completely stop smoking weed, but I don't know if I can completely stop taking pain pills.
Am I wrong for not telling him this? I really think this could affect us having a relationship and I'm worried


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.


-- Posted by Jazmosis06 at 11:24 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

im sure as long as you're honest with him, he'll appreciate your honesty and the pain pills won't be a problem. talk it out with him. maybe he can help you quit the pain pills if you don't need them.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice


-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.

I don't know if the pain pills will be fine though.  I'm talking about morphine and very strong pills that effect me.  I mean I am abusing the pills for a high and not just always my back.  I know I shouldn't, but sometimes I just want to get so messed up that I don't care about anything for a while.


-- Posted by BREAKBOY at 11:26 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

Finally, something I agree with you on.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:26 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.

I don't know if the pain pills will be fine though.  I'm talking about morphine and very strong pills that effect me.  I mean I am abusing the pills for a high and not just always my back.  I know I shouldn't, but sometimes I just want to get so messed up that I don't care about anything for a while.


Come clean with him. He can help you. But stop the pills. Seriously


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

gateway drug dude


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Breakboy at 11:26 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

Finally, something I agree with you on.


Amazing!


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:28 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

gateway drug dude


Bullshit dude. If you want a real gateway drug, try caffeine or alcohol.


-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all.  I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack.  I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now.  I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.


-- Posted by AcidSilence at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Breakboy at 11:26 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

Finally, something I agree with you on.


qft


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:28 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

gateway drug dude


Bullshit dude. If you want a real gateway drug, try caffeine or alcohol.


I am anti-caffeine, anti-alcohol, anti-drug. psh, all of it is bad.  If she is taking too much of something, it's bad.


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


I know I can quit doing it all.  I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack.  I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now.  I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:35 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:30 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:28 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:27 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

 gateway drug dude


Bullshit dude. If you want a real gateway drug, try caffeine or alcohol.

 
I am anti-caffeine, anti-alcohol, anti-drug. psh, all of it is bad.  If she is taking too much of something, it's bad.


Straight-edge?

And yes, too much of anything is bad


-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all. I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack. I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now. I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 11:37 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all.  I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack.  I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now.  I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.
 

 well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).


If you feel so guilty, TELL HIM!
If he loves you, he'll help you


-- Posted by Anonymous at 11:40 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:37 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from Anonymous at 11:36 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:31 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from Anonymous at 11:29 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

I know I can quit doing it all. I mean for a while there I was using Meth, Weed, and Crack. I have realized what drugs do to people and I know I need to stop Weed and Pills now. I just start to feel so guilty about not telling him yet and it makes me want to use.

  well you said he knows about your history and if you're willing to stop, then there obviously shouldn't be a problem.


 

 I know I just feel so guilty! I mean I don't want to screw things up. Plus it doesn't help that the people I live with are into drugs (and don't say move because I currently can't).


If you feel so guilty, TELL HIM!
If he loves you, he'll help you

I know, it's just that he has so many problems lately of his own that I don't want to pile this on with them.
I just wish I could make it all go away and never had started!
Even talking about all this just makes me wish I had a handful of pills and a joint!!!


-- Posted by these broken angels at 11:43 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

you need to tell him


-- Posted by 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008


Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

 

NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

It wastes your life away.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 12:12 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008


Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

 NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

It wastes your life away.


So does living  


-- Posted by agentxprovocateur at 12:13 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:12 am on Feb. 23, 2008


Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 12:11 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 12:04 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from 1HotBroadwayChick at 12:02 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Quote: from MushroomSatsujin at 11:25 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

Quote: from agentxprovocateur at 11:22 pm on Feb. 22, 2008

pain pills are fine, he'll be fine with it but quit the weed.
Whats your logic behind that? Addictive and dangerous pills are better than something that has NEVER killed anyone and has a extremely low addiction potential? Nice

   

  NEVER killed anyone before? You might want to check your research on that one. It's killed plenty of people.


Ive done my research. There is not ONE study that shows that it has EVER caused an overdose. It is physically impossible.

 

 It wastes your life away.


So does living  

Yea there's a huge difference b/w living unstoned and living stoned.


-- Posted by MushroomSatsujin at 12:15 am on Feb. 23, 2008

Yeah, ones drug influenced, the other isnt. Not necessarily a bad thing


-- Posted by casesensitive30 at 6:43 pm on April 6, 2008

if you tell him, he might give you an ultimatum to stop taking. and you have except that, so when you tell him, you need to be ready to stop.

i know you can get drug treatment locally and try to work on your addiction.. those pills are extremley addictive, and your life would be much better without them once your past the withdrawl phaze.


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