-- Posted by jamescoleman at 8:23 pm on Mar. 8, 2008 So I've like a few girls and really thought that they had an interest in me. I told one and I didn't tell the others but its like when they talk to me or stay around me to where I think they like me. Just to find out that they don't. So for short story. I liked one in highschool and never got to date her because I never told her just to find out that she liked me. Second was another girls where I liked and I thought she liked me so I was all geeky about it just to find out that I told her she told me no and I told her I still liked her and she went crazy over it. Other one was where I met at camp and I hung out with her and had a good time just to find out a few months later she stopped talking to me and then she got a boyfriend. sent her a message just messing around then now she hasn't sent me a message back. So i'm like how do i know if shes attracted to me? -- Posted by Chloe102 at 8:24 pm on Mar. 8, 2008 confusinggggg :| -- Posted by jamescoleman at 8:50 pm on Mar. 8, 2008 sorry i can be like that at times... -- Posted by AARONP at 3:01 am on Mar. 9, 2008 ok what u getting at -- Posted by jamescoleman at 10:05 pm on Mar. 11, 2008 i'm asking how can i tell if a girl is attracted to a guy... -- Posted by JustTony at 6:46 am on Mar. 14, 2008 Usually you just know, every girl Ive hooked up with has given me some kind of hint, whether her friend was like "so n so is trying to holla at u" or she smiled at me in class or sent me a note or called me "just to talk."  nah mean?  First off U gotta B aware, dont sit back an act like U dont give a fuck (that shit turns off most girls), b ON YOUR TOES if U tryna get laid, be ready for anything.  Also, U cant be afraid to make the first move, if U too nervous and know u aint ready for that DONT try it, it will be pitifull.  Find an approach that is comfortable for you, (only U know U best), and plan it out, Always have a Plan A, Plan B, and even a Plan C, if U aint on your game I guarantee U will fail miserably unless the girl is madd easy...try it an give it your all or nothing...thass my advice -- Posted by jamescoleman at 12:48 pm on Mar. 15, 2008 thanks for the info justtony.