-- Posted by Anonymous at 7:46 am on Mar. 11, 2008 im sooo sorry.. but i have to make this anonymous because of the shame.:( well when me and my boyfriend attempted sex for the first time.. it didnt go in.. this happened before with a previous boyfriend i had.. is it me? am i doing something wrong.. i feel soo stupid and i always hate myself , after we stopped. i went straight into the bathroom and cried :( i feel like its all my fault and im to blame :( help please.. and any tips and advice will be much appreciated