-- Posted by Anisela at 11:48 am on Mar. 18, 2008 alright, my ex dumped me becuase some other guy kissed me before he left for iraq. now , i knew that my  ex didn't like him so i turned that dude down the whole week he was there, so i asked my ex for his permission to see the dude and he said yes but not to tell him. well i took my friend with me and everything was cool, then he asked if i could take him to popeyes and i said yes cuz his mom was going too so we still wouldn't be alone. well, then he kissed me and i pulled away and got off the truck. Now, i figured that if i told my ex, he would get upset and dump me, but if i kept it from him, he would find out and there would be absolutely no hope for me. but then i figured that if he loved me and i know i love him, then we'd be able to just blow it off and work it out.  it was meaningless and just a pop, it wasn't like he tongued me. but he still dumped me. so the question is, was it my fault? some people call me stupid for thinking it is but my ex tells me so. so is it? any opinions would greatly be appreciated. oh and sorry for it being so long. -- Posted by Missipop at 11:52 am on Mar. 18, 2008 not really but sort off you shouldnt have kissed him but you never kissed him first so i wouldnt think so -- Posted by skylerthomas at 11:53 am on Mar. 18, 2008 no, but kissing him wasent the greates thing to do -- Posted by EndLess LoVe at 12:00 pm on Mar. 18, 2008 You had no idea that would happen. I wouldn't blame you.