-- Posted by misssam18 at 7:36 pm on April 14, 2008 so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year since i was set up on a blind date to get a prom date.. I really like him and he really likes me too.. next year we are gonna be goig to UW Oshkosh and i was wondering what people think do you think we have a chance of lasting.. We are always talking about the future and we both are interested in doing the same thing.. Traveling after college and even though its still early in the relationship we have talked about getting married... So iw as looking for some opinion on this, if oyu could help me out that would be awesome. -- Posted by cadetjones2011 at 7:36 pm on April 14, 2008 yes i think it should last -- Posted by seekingsimplicity at 7:37 pm on April 14, 2008 keep dating and you will see, dont set up your hopes too high though. -- Posted by tearsinheaven at 7:39 pm on April 14, 2008 we can't tell you whether it will last or not. neither can anyone else. just take it as it comes and see where you end up. -- Posted by MelinaEll at 7:43 pm on April 14, 2008 me and my bf started dating my freshman year of high school. We are still together now and we are both going to college. True, a lot of people don't last but that does not apply to everyone. If it feels right stay with it...I will only say that after some time the infatuation does fade and it becomes a love hate thing. My bf was the first serious one I ever had and so I haven't had much fun dating in my life. Which is the only thing I regret. So if you haven't had your fun fix I suggest thinking on a long term relationship. Because love is wonderful but I wish I had dated more before getting serious cause I often think of what I have been missing. Relationships take more work as you go on. But good luck in whatever you decide. -- Posted by HatesYou at 6:53 pm on April 18, 2008 well, since you guys are both going off to the same college and both plan to do the same thing afterwards, it sounds as if you'll be good to go at it together. nevertheless, college is a nice place for social interaction, learning new things, experiencing life from a completely different perspective, and succeeding as a whole! it sounds like you two are great together as of now, but only time and your decisions will determine this. everyone likes to experience new things, so you'll probably hit a few bumps and bruises. maybe you'll separate for a while. you know, get a little tired of each other. but like i said, it's only you and decisions you guys make together what will determine your future.