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-- Posted by CrazyGuitaristGirl at 10:41 am on April 22, 2008

My bf is in a 1 act play with a bunch of our friends and it's led by a student director-Rob.  My bf is a senior and rob is a freshman...the only reason my bf ryan didn't have his own play is because he has wayyy too much to do this semester and he didn't even try out for rob's play.  

While rob is the official director, he's been terribly rude to the entire cast, and while ryan has been developing everyone's character, rob claims these ideas as his own, and honestly he knows nothing about theater.  

It's a lot worse than what I've just spoken about but it's more the attitude than anything else.  Rob claims to be a Christian but he knows NOTHING about humility...I even spoke with him about it today and he admitted that he knew about it but didn't feel like it would get him anywhere.....he thinks he's right about EVERYTHING and will 'correct' EVERYONE from other friends, other peers, older adults, and professors....even if there's cold, hard facts to back up the data.  

He basically thinks he's God and a few weeks ago when a bunch of us went camping, driving on I-81, going 80+ mph, he 'threaded the needle' almost killing us all in the process!!

Soo the past few days, it's been getting worse and worse and last night he tried to 'put ryan in his place'.....and thought he hurt ryans 'macho side' when in fact he just PISSED HIM OFF....so now ryan is trying INCREDIBLY HARD not to beat the living shit out of rob....Me and other people have explained to rob that he NEEDS to learn some humility and apologize to ryan and also watch his back....but he's said that he doesn't care if he gets beat up, he doesn't have time for it and it'll hurt but he's not afraid......

I'm working sooo hard to make sure ryan DOESN'T beat him up, cause he could in a heartbeat and he'd get kicked out, and might go to jail.....and ryan's trying but warning him, we're all warning rob and ryan called the theater director to come talk to rob and warned him as well....and in fact he's bringing his roommate to rehearsal tonight to make sure to pull ryan off of rob if rob pokes him in the chest again tonight.....

I mean wtf is up with this guy rob?? He's seriously asking to get his ass beat and frankly, he pisses me the fuck off so I'd rather just kick rob in the balls hard,than have my bf beat the living shit out of him.....but this is just absolutely ridiculous....


-- Posted by Dianaa Notlikemost at 10:43 am on April 22, 2008

Let them fight..LOL jump in if ya want...thats what id do.


-- Posted by warcrack at 10:44 am on April 22, 2008

Let him kick his ass, he deserves it.


-- Posted by PineappleKiss at 10:57 am on April 22, 2008

Try and clear your distance when you can. I mean, he could end up in jail or kicked out. It is a high price to pay, he does sound annoying. But just keep clear as much as you can.


-- Posted by DLankan at 10:58 am on April 22, 2008

there's people worht beating up and people not worth. This fool's in the second category,
Tell yo bf chill out, just water off his back dont let this fool get to him

Blessings


-- Posted by CrazyGuitaristGirl at 10:59 am on April 22, 2008

no, well no one's gonna hurt me thats for damn sure.  If rob even acts threateningly to me he knows ryan won't stand for it and will immediately beat the shit out of him....but no, i think i'll come near the end of rehearsal and stay for a while.....try and make sure things don't escalade....if i need to, i'll call campus security to make sure ryan doesn't beat him up (he knows the security guards well, they like him).


-- Posted by thepartyboy at 11:03 am on April 22, 2008

WOW D00D!!!!!


-- Posted by CrazyGuitaristGirl at 11:06 am on April 22, 2008

yeah, I know this guy isn't worth it.  I KNOW he won't press charges against me if I just happen to slip and my foot lands on his balls.....however he's just dying to do something to ryan.


-- Posted by nik1 at 1:23 pm on May 7, 2008

It's called stupid male ego!

Both are childish and ridiculous.  Choose your battles and this isn't one of them.

I would suggest that you take a strong position and tell both of them if they don't cut out the childish crap that both of them can kiss your ass goodbye.


-- Posted by nocturne20 at 10:10 pm on June 14, 2008

Maybe you should kick him hard in the balls.


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