LiveWire Peer Support Network

Printable Version of Topic "Pubic Hair - Your Preference"

- LiveWire Teen Forums & College Forums (http://www.golivewire.com)
-- (http://www.golivewire.com/forums/support-teen.html)
--- Teen Sexuality (http://www.golivewire.com/forums/forum-14-s-0.html)
---- Pubic Hair - Your Preference (http://www.golivewire.com/forums/peer-ieaaps-support-a.html)

Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9  Next


-- Posted by Hyacinth at 2:03 pm on April 26, 2008

Hello LiveWire.

(For the above poll, please vote for your preferred pubic hair option, on your preferred gender. So bi's, you'll have to choose.)

I have seen thousands of posts about pubic hair (mostly on the female), so I have figured that such a post as this one, is of the utmost necessity.

First Issue

Common courtesy. If you wish your partner to shave/wax/trim their pubic hair, it is common courtesy for you to do the same thing. Ok?

Ok. Good.

Second Issue

Why do most males prefer their women shaved/waxed.

The answer to this, is very easy. From birth males are surrounded with pictures of sexy, sensual women. All of them hairless. Women's leg's? Hairless. Women's arms? Some remove the hair, some it's so little and white you can't see it, so it's virtually hairless. However, some women have rather hairy arms, which is unfortunate because it isn't very pleasant to look at hence we say "that woman has man arms" if the hair is black and plentiful. Also porn. Women are hairless.

Men have been brought up, to think that any bodily hair on a female (with exception to eyebrows and your hair on the top of your head) is not pleasant.

Smooth=Sexy.

It is not our fault, that we find bodily hair on a female disgusting, it has been inbred into us. Not shaving/waxing your vagina is like not shaving your legs. It has the same effect. So why would vaginal hair be more pleasant than leg hair?  

Please take this into consideration girls.

Common Arguments

1st Argument: "It's unnatural to shave down there, ew".

This argument is of course, based solely on personal opinion, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. If you don't want to, don't. However saying it is "unnatural" really isn't very smart.  Almost everything in our society is unnatural, from the processed, chemically altered food we eat, to the clothes that keep  us warm. We are a superficial society, and natural/unnatural means very, very little.

2nd Argument: "It's disgusting to have no hair down there, i don't want to look like a 9 year old, the guy must be a paedophile".  

I'm sure you can all see where I am going to go with this by now. Anyway, you shave your legs. But your shaven legs, are smooth, sexy and definately not that of a 9 year old. Same goes with your other bodily parts. You remove all excess body hair to be "feminine" and because it is disgusting, to both the look and touch (in society's mind), but shaving pubic hair is unfeminine, and makes you look like a child? No, it simply isn't true. A child's vagina, is nothing like a shaved/waxed, grown woman's and men certainly are  not paedophiles for liking it shaved/waxed.

3rd Argument: "It is a woman's body, and she shouldn't be pressured into changing the way she wants it for any reason".

This is 99% true. It is a woman's body and it is her choice. However, when two people consensually get together for sexual relations, things need to be taken into consideration. I'm sure all of us want to please our respective partner(s), and they may or may not prefer it trimmed/shaved/waxed. Now, this is in no way to say that just because your partner(s) want you to do it that you should. It is your choice.

As for male pubic hair, just ask us ladies and gentlemen, I have yet to find a man who won't trim/shave in any way shape or form for their partner. But do not let them harass you to trim/shave/wax if they themselves will not return the courtesy.

Mod's please for the love of whatever you believe in or hold dear, sticky!!!

Edit:Added some more formatting for easier reading.


-- Posted by Majo at 2:04 pm on April 26, 2008

Male- natural


-- Posted by sadnessness at 2:04 pm on April 26, 2008

wow... three votes so far! COME ON PEOPLE!


-- Posted by sexyboy13 at 2:05 pm on April 26, 2008

I prefer trimmed. A little pubic hair is sexy.


-- Posted by spoof at 2:06 pm on April 26, 2008

whats up with pubes tonight?


-- Posted by ZOMGimrae at 2:06 pm on April 26, 2008

Trimmed on a male.

Shaved/waxed for a female.


-- Posted by LittleBombs at 2:06 pm on April 26, 2008

You put too much thought into this.


-- Posted by shawtygirl at 2:07 pm on April 26, 2008

i still think a girl with no hair down there is nasty and a guy who likes it that way is a pedophile. oh and i trim most of it


-- Posted by Hyacinth at 2:09 pm on April 26, 2008

Quote: from shawtygirl at 6:37 am on April 27, 2008


i still think a girl with no hair down there is nasty and a guy who likes it that way is a pedophile. oh and i trim most of it

Thank-you for reading my post and replying back with such contribution and a well thought out reason.

Bravo.

Ignorant Douche


-- Posted by AmazingAndy at 2:11 pm on April 26, 2008

Male - Natural


-- Posted by Hyacinth at 2:13 pm on April 26, 2008

Quote: from LittleBombs at 6:36 am on April 27, 2008


You put too much thought into this.

Totally worth it. It had to be done.


-- Posted by HaouLance99 at 7:46 pm on April 26, 2008

I'll say "Females - Trimmed".  Though to be honest, trimmed or shaved works for me.


-- Posted by Destinys Child at 9:08 pm on April 26, 2008

Quote: from HaouLance99 at 9:46 pm on April 26, 2008


I'll say "Females - Trimmed".  Though to be honest, trimmed or shaved works for me.
Agreed.


-- Posted by JodieX at 4:14 am on April 27, 2008

I say get rid of the lot! its gross


-- Posted by Senlak at 6:36 am on April 27, 2008

My balls are shaved completely smooth, the area above my dick has a small amount of hair trimmed very short like male porn stars tend to do.

Unfortunately I can post a picture but I think it looks good - nothing would look worse than a small penis poking through a forest of hair.


-- Posted by derr71290 at 7:55 am on April 27, 2008

my girl HAS to be shaved/waxed if im going to eat her out, but thats what i perfer. she dont want me to shave all of mine off bcuz she says its sexy and sometimes when hes riding me the hair on her clit provides stimulation(?????wtf????)


-- Posted by AmeliaEnit at 8:47 am on April 28, 2008

male trimmed


-- Posted by beachick123 at 9:58 pm on April 28, 2008

males trimmed
females shaved


-- Posted by Omii at 8:11 am on April 30, 2008

LOL I DIDNT READ THE QUESTION PROPERLLY SO I VOTED FOR GIRL LOL :)

but i say MAN naturale


-- Posted by ralili at 1:30 pm on May 1, 2008

It would be more helpful to have a thread telling how to shave that area, since the guy that wants to be sexual with me wants me bare.


-- Posted by babygirl2010 at 8:51 pm on May 1, 2008

ima girl n i shave...guys atleast trim it


-- Posted by MillieLaLa at 7:10 am on May 3, 2008

on a guy trimmed


-- Posted by iamironman at 10:59 am on May 3, 2008

Quote: from Hyacinth at 5:09 pm on April 26, 2008


Quote: from shawtygirl at 6:37 am on April 27, 2008

i still think a girl with no hair down there is nasty and a guy who likes it that way is a pedophile. oh and i trim most of it

Thank-you for reading my post and replying back with such contribution and a well thought out reason.

Bravo.

Ignorant Douche



That's their opinion, asshole.


-- Posted by BeautifulLies82 at 4:43 pm on May 5, 2008

And the guy shouldn't shave because...?


-- Posted by Hyacinth at 5:03 pm on May 5, 2008

Quote: from BeautifulLies82 at 9:13 am on May 6, 2008


And the guy shouldn't shave because...?

No-one said they shouldn't shave. I particularly pointed out that if a guy wants his girl to shave, he should do the same.

The reason this sticky focuses mainly on females is because it is a far bigger debate to female pubic hair, than for males.


-- Posted by battlebaby8 at 11:41 am on May 6, 2008

Well I'm bi. I prefer both to be smooth and silky =D
Shaved is okay, because I, myself, am scared of waxes


-- Posted by daisyonmyboots at 3:40 pm on May 7, 2008

1. This poll demonstrates perfectly the double standard. Why can't women be trimmed like men? Sadly, I'm sure the women do this to themselves. Stop oppressing yourselves.

2. Guys who won't accept anything but a woman with no hair at all must watch way too much porn and not have much experience with a real woman.

3. I suggest you men who want women to have no hair at all to go get a Brazilian wax yourselves and then talk. And don't say, "Well you can shave, you don't have to wax" because that's a whole different can of worms involving ingrown hairs, horrible itching, and nothing aesthetically pleasing. Especially if one has thicker hair follicles.

So yea, don't blame it on the porn because if you can realize that you have been brainwashed, then you can surely deprogram yourselves.  


-- Posted by supersexy9 at 5:09 pm on May 7, 2008

natural


-- Posted by Kayling at 9:24 pm on May 7, 2008

For myself, I would LIKE to shave, but every time I do, I get horrible rash and ingrown hairs so I usually just trim it really short. No guys I've been with have ever not gone down on me just because I had a little bit of hair. As for my preference on guys, I don't really care as long as it's not a forest.


-- Posted by robdude at 11:46 am on May 8, 2008

male-trimmed

Pages: 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9  Next


www.golivewire.com