-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:23 pm on May 7, 2008 K i need to know if i'm out of line here. Today while cleaning I found my Boyfriend's new MP3 player, I wanted to see exactly how 'neat' it was,  because it plays videos, has a fm tuner all that.. so I turned it on, browzed his music, started listening to a song, then decided to see how the quality of his videos were, so I checked his videos and he has one labled : How to keep a Boyfriend (have you ever seen anything this cute!!) so I being curious played that one.. there was this girl on there, she started talking saying 'i know you dont want a girlfriend but.....' and she undressed and messed around... but that's not what bothers me (because I know my bf looks at porn) the part that bothers me is she specifically said 'Matt' several times (that's my bf's name) and she said 'if this is what you want, all you have to do is ask'..... then at the end she said, 'love you, forever and always'.. the worst part of this is that it's what my bf said to me when we started dating, and he says it occasionally, just thoes two things together (his name and the foever. and always) really is buggin me... I know i'm insecure, and I know it was wrong for me to go thru his stuff, but it was an innocent jesture. Now I dont know what to do, if I shoudl ask him about it.. and admit i went through his stuff, or just let it go and see what happends... Someone help me please -- Posted by Spork is a Ninja at 1:27 pm on May 7, 2008 ummm...some red flags ought to be going up right now! so I would talk to him about it. Explain what you were doing and hopfully he will understand! -- Posted by Anonymous at 1:34 pm on May 7, 2008 yeah the worst part about that though, is if it is directed to him, it'll be the truth i dont want to hear....  idk, I know i've got to talk to him.. but idk what i'm gonna do.. -- Posted by recklesspoetry at 6:51 am on May 8, 2008 um, just tell him you were looking at his videos and you saw it and that its bothering you... hopefully he should understand.