-- Posted by Amberexic at 6:01 pm on May 18, 2008 My boyfriend asked me if we could have a threesome(with another girl).. he says he doesn't want to have sex with the other girl, just wants us both to give him head at the same time. I told him maybe as long as she was my friend and not his, and that he didn't get to have her number. I think it'd be fun but potentially make me feel jealous or alittle insecure. Does anyone have experience w this? -- Posted by lilnikkyfreak at 6:01 pm on May 18, 2008 asdf345 267 =09-6t7 -- Posted by greeneyedone at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008 I would do it. I would be afraid he would leave for her or something like that. -- Posted by DrewElizabeth at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008 i don't but i am a jealous person -- Posted by WigAOK9 at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008 it sounds like a bat idea in your case! very bad -- Posted by deathhousee at 6:03 pm on May 18, 2008 Does your boyfriend have two dicks? Otherwise, you both giving head at the same time would be a little difficult, IMO -- Posted by SgtPatches at 6:03 pm on May 18, 2008 wouldn't do it. -- Posted by BandGeekLesbo at 6:03 pm on May 18, 2008 how would you both give him head at the SAME TIME? -- Posted by LovelyMistress at 6:04 pm on May 18, 2008 I've been asked the same thing.... and they all claim the same.. honestly, it's a bad idea... -- Posted by Amberexic at 6:04 pm on May 18, 2008 lol.. have you ever watched porn? it IS possible. maybe i'd consider it once our relationship is more stable. -- Posted by Majo at 6:07 pm on May 18, 2008 I'd never do it. -- Posted by sexytinkerbelle at 6:09 pm on May 18, 2008 i would do it it sounds fun -- Posted by fly boy at 1:47 am on May 21, 2008 if you love him you'll do it................nah just kidding...make sure your ok with it....if you have the slightest doubt in the back of your mind dont do it -- Posted by aeternus at 8:23 am on May 22, 2008 Don't do it if you have any doubts, or if you think you'll start resenting him because of it. However, if you don't have any doubts, that'd be fucking awesome for him. -- Posted by abercrombie fitch at 8:36 am on May 22, 2008 Yes and it is really awkward, jealousy is usually a big issue especially watching your partner with someone else. good like finding a girl willing to give your guy a bj though.   -- Posted by nik1 at 2:32 pm on May 23, 2008 What he is really saying is (a) You no longer satisfy his fantasies (b) just the beginning of more kinky sex (c) His sexual needs are more important than yours. Most girls that would agree to this believe that they will lose their bf unless they agree to all he wants. If you truly would be turned on by it then do it but don't be shocked if it turns into something else. -- Posted by Lillylove at 12:53 pm on May 24, 2008 Threesomes can be a fun time. You and your bf must agree that there is nothing romantic about it, that it is just sexual games and  experimentation. Personally, I don't like ffm and much prefer mmf. I like  to see them compete and one of them is usually up. It isn't for everyone but since I like anal, I like the DP aspect. -- Posted by xcutioners at 2:59 am on May 26, 2008 No. Don't do it. To me, it seems like he's just in FOR SEX, not RELATIOnSHIP What a douche... get rid of him =/ -- Posted by EyelashWishes at 2:11 pm on May 26, 2008 i wouldnt suggest against this idea, unless you have a pretty secure relationship it can make partners feel jelous etc -- Posted by Squibble at 4:27 pm on June 15, 2008 Girl, honestly? Been there, done that unfortunately... It will NOT end well as you two are in a relationship and because you're not a time-tested couple. That sort of experimentation is best with people you DON'T have emotional ties to! -- Posted by ultima171 at 12:38 pm on June 17, 2008 go for it but tell him you want to have a 3some with another guy. ill be the other guy!  lol. seriously, try it but if you have any doubts don't. and make sure he is serious about "not having sex with her and not gettin her number" just be careful with the whole situation. hey if it doesn't work with him, you and your friend can both blow me... lol -- Posted by TigressaLynnMae at 3:38 pm on June 17, 2008 It doesn't hurt to experiment. I've never had a threesome, but I'd do it, if my guy allowed/asked for it. But it would depend on the third party. IF it were a girl, I'd probably want to pick her out, b/c I get jealous easily. And if it were a guy, I'd probably let him pick out the guy, for he gets jealous easier. -- Posted by Soren Kierkegaard at 3:54 pm on June 17, 2008 Quote: from WigAOK9 at 6:02 pm on May 18, 2008 it sounds like a bat idea in your case! very bad Agreed, not only does it diminish the intimacy within the relationship, but if you have to worry about the faithfulness of your partner beforehand, why tempt it? -- Posted by Ice318 at 11:03 am on Mar. 21, 2009 you might enjoy it. I had a threesome with my boyfriend and another girl (sex included) and it was really fun. I have NEVER felt a moment of jealousy over it. ... and tonight we might do it with another guy for the first time! yes!