Pages: 1 2  Next -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 4:06 pm on May 19, 2008 I'm a follower of Jesus Christ, and as such, I believe its a sin to masturbate. "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people." Ephesians 5:3 (NIV) If a hint, is anything that gets you closer to the answer (sex outside of marraige), than I think masturbation is a sin. Anyway, since I don't want to do it, I have a bit of a problem. I'm masturbating in my sleep. I'm not talking about 'wet-dreams' or 'nocturnal emissions' where it just comes out, i'm actually masturbating in my sleep just like someone who walks or talks in their sleep. I would actually love to have a wet dream, because then i would know that i didn't do it myself. I am always like halfway asleep halfway awake, where I know what I'm doing, but I can't do anything, I can't even say anything. Any ideas of how to stop this? may the God of peace be with you all, david -- Posted by Cyanide666 at 4:07 pm on May 19, 2008 Raise the crotchal finger to god and whack it off? -- Posted by Taylor636Baker at 4:07 pm on May 19, 2008 Haha awww. I feel really bad that you can't stop yourself I have no earthly idea what could help you with this, though. -- Posted by iBritt at 4:09 pm on May 19, 2008 Lighten up and buy a playboy. -- Posted by Latin Muscle at 4:10 pm on May 19, 2008 Typical Pseudo-christian You probably swear, watch porn, and hate. -- Posted by ManfredPowerballs at 4:10 pm on May 19, 2008 Tie your hands to the bedposts. I read a leaflet online which suggested that lol, can't remember where. -- Posted by sweetasanut at 4:11 pm on May 19, 2008 maybe your doing it because it is a natural thing to do? -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 4:13 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from sweetasanut at 4:11 pm on May 19, 2008 maybe your doing it because it is a natural thing to do? ...with your wife. peace -- Posted by Tavis at 4:13 pm on May 19, 2008 Well, that is something you will have to do yourself. You are loyal to god, and that is good, but I think that god will forgive you if you sub-consiously (that's what it is really, awake but not) are masturbating, but he would want you to try and control yourself I think. Train yourself to not. Wear tight clothing on your bottoms maybe, and hmm, just think about not doing it for a while before bed, and with hope, and determination, you might be able to overcome your subconsious state. I personally would find it very tough to do so, but I also am not the biggest follower of Jesus Christ even though I am part of the church, so you might have more faith then I do, and will be able to overcome it. -- Posted by mirandaxxrad at 4:14 pm on May 19, 2008 thats horrible, maybe you need to masterbate. its natrual -- Posted by dianka1217 at 4:14 pm on May 19, 2008 well maybe the magical bunny is helping you do it because they want you to watch the lamps go to heaven? obviously -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 4:15 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from latin muscle at 4:10 pm on May 19, 2008 Typical Pseudo-christian You probably swear, watch porn, and hate.   your exactly right. I am a follower of Christ, because I have accepted my imperfection, and his perfection. peace -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 4:17 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from dianka1217 at 4:14 pm on May 19, 2008 well maybe the magical bunny is helping you do it because they want you to watch the lamps go to heaven? obviously "They exchanged the truth of God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen." Romans 1:25 (NIV) I hope not.. peace -- Posted by Phoenix 1989 at 4:22 pm on May 19, 2008 it is a natural sexual urge -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 4:26 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from Phoenix 1989 at 4:22 pm on May 19, 2008 it is a natural sexual urge ...to be enjoyed...with your wife. peace -- Posted by Cyanide666 at 6:29 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from davidbaldwin at 4:26 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from Phoenix 1989 at 4:22 pm on May 19, 2008 it is a natural sexual urge ...to be enjoyed...with your wife. peace You know, masturbation is sex as much as riding a bicycle is driving a car. Besides...who cares? -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 7:50 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from Cyanide666 at 6:29 pm on May 19, 2008 You know, masturbation is sex as much as riding a bicycle is driving a car. Besides...who cares? apparently God does. "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." Galatians 5:1 (NIV) I don't stop sinning because I HAVE TO, but because I WANT TO. thats the difference between living under the law, and living in freedom. -- Posted by Cyanide666 at 9:24 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from davidbaldwin at 7:50 pm on May 19, 2008 Quote: from Cyanide666 at 6:29 pm on May 19, 2008 You know, masturbation is sex as much as riding a bicycle is driving a car. Besides...who cares? apparently God does. "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." Galatians 5:1 (NIV) I don't stop sinning because I HAVE TO, but because I WANT TO. thats the difference between living under the law, and living in freedom. Living in freedom?  Man, I'M living in freedom.  No religion for me, please and thank you. -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 8:16 pm on May 23, 2008 No Religion for me either.... From the book "Venti Jesus Please" by Greg Stier: ""I don't know, Nick," Jen admitted. "You're saying that Jesus is the way to a meaningful life and to heaven and that's fine. But why not Buddha or Mohammed or whatever? I mean Jesus is cool, but so are all these other religions, right?" "No," Nick responded while reaching for his backpack. He opened it up and reached in it to find his Bible. Opening it up, he flipped through several pages until he finally found what he was looking for. Nick continued, "Jesus said in John 14:6 ;I am THE way and THE truth and THE life. No one comes to the Father except through me'." Looking up, Nick said something that got my blood boiling. "Jesus claimed a relationship with him was the ONLY way to heaven." "You mean to tell me that all other religions are on the 'highway to hell'?" I asked angrily "No. Not all OTHER religions...ALL religions are bound for hell. The word 'religion' comes form the Latin word that means 'to bind back.' ALL religions are trying in one way or anouther to bind themselves back to God through good deeds, sacrifices, baptism, codes, creeds, or whatever. All of it falls short." "True Christianity" he went on, "is realizing that God bound himself to humanity through his Son Jesus Christ, that Jesus Christ allowed himself to be bound to a cross for our sins, that he was bound up in a tomb and set free from the bonds of death after three days. And that Jesus offers to unbind us forever from the penalty of sin if we simply trust in him alone as our only hope for forgiveness!" Nick was on a roll so he kept going, flipping through the pages of his Bible again. "Jesus said in John 6:47, 'I tell you the truth, he who believes has everlasting life.' You see, at the end of the day, the gift of forgiveness, of everlasting eternal life, of heaven, of a personal, permanent relationship with God, is not achieved by our good deeds, but received through faith. It's not a matter of trying, but trusting. And once we put our faith and trust in him alone as the free gift of forgiveness, God himself becomes our heavenly Father forever. He will love us always. He will always be there for us. No matter how we fall-like I often do, or have fallen in the past-he will love us unconditionally. He will hear all of our prayers and hold us tightly thorough the storms of life." Silence." peace. -- Posted by morgs0812 at 1:28 pm on June 7, 2008 God never says in the verse you quoted that masturbation is a sin...I don't know, are you trying to read between the lines and put words into the verse that aren't there? Be careful with that one...don't play God, please. -- Posted by Vertical at 6:50 pm on June 8, 2008 masturbation isnt a sin,sleeping with someones wife is a sin,rape is a sin,masturbation isnt a sexual sin,its called rubbing your cock or fingering your pussy it isnt sex sex is with another person so its not a sin you dumb mother fucker -- Posted by ultima171 at 9:46 pm on June 10, 2008 now i think the whole"masturbating is a sin" thing is bullsh1t but if god controls our lives and destiny's then why is he letting you do this if he sees it as a sin. admit it, you like it, you want to do it more, and you think its a little dumb for that 2 be a sin...live a little, lol -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 9:28 pm on July 2, 2008 Quote: from Vertical at 6:50 pm on June 8, 2008 masturbation isnt a sin,sleeping with someones wife is a sin,rape is a sin,masturbation isnt a sexual sin,its called rubbing your cock or fingering your pussy it isnt sex sex is with another person so its not a sin you dumb mother fucker "(27) "You have heard that it was said, 'Do not commit adultery.' (28) But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Matthew 5:27-28 if it's a sin to even lust after a person...how do you think that's going to work for you when your whacking off? I believe from the 'hint of sexual immorality' that it's a sin regardless of lust, but most people lust when they masturbate, so that makes it automatically a sin. -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 9:30 pm on July 2, 2008 Quote: from ultima171 at 9:46 pm on June 10, 2008 now i think the whole"masturbating is a sin" thing is bullsh1t but if god controls our lives and destiny's then why is he letting you do this if he sees it as a sin. admit it, you like it, you want to do it more, and you think its a little dumb for that 2 be a sin...live a little, lol Why would God control our lives? If we cannot choose to sin, then we cannot choose to love and our love for him wouldn't be real. He created us, to be in fellowship with him. He dosn't want us to be mindless robots the love and worship him, he wants us to have genuine love, and for that to happen we have to have a choice to love and a choice to sin. -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 9:31 pm on July 2, 2008 Quote: from morgs0812 at 1:28 pm on June 7, 2008 God never says in the verse you quoted that masturbation is a sin...I don't know, are you trying to read between the lines and put words into the verse that aren't there? Be careful with that one...don't play God, please. I'm not trying to read between the lines, I believe that masturbation is included in 'sexual immorality' and most defiantly included in a 'hint of sexual immortality.' -- Posted by Charolastra at 1:45 am on July 3, 2008 fashion a pair of gloves from sandpaper and wear them to sleep -- Posted by nik1 at 3:10 pm on July 3, 2008 I really feel sorry for you that you have permitted anyone or anything to control your mind.   If the truth were known Jesus and all of his disciples masturbated.  The Pope does as do all the priests. Rabbis masturbate.  I assure you Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson and Billy Graham has masturbated. It's a natural function but yet you have this guilt that has been instilled in you. Feel guilt if you lie, cheat, steal, abuse or discriminate but don't feel guilt for something that is doing absolutely no harm to anyone.  Open you eyes and enjoy every stroke and your life will open up and change for the better. -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 3:15 pm on July 3, 2008 Quote: from nik1 at 3:10 pm on July 3, 2008 I really feel sorry for you that you have permitted anyone or anything to control your mind. If the truth were known Jesus and all of his disciples masturbated. The Pope does as do all the priests. Rabbis masturbate. I assure you Jerry Falwell, Pat Robertson and Billy Graham has masturbated. It's a natural function but yet you have this guilt that has been instilled in you.   Feel guilt if you lie, cheat, steal, abuse or discriminate but don't feel guilt for something that is doing absolutely no harm to anyone. Open you eyes and enjoy every stroke and your life will open up and change for the better.     I'm sure all of those people you mentioned, with the exception of Jesus, masturbated. I'm not allowing anything to control my mind, I am choosing to follow Jesus. peace -- Posted by The Wandering Man at 4:57 pm on July 3, 2008 I dont think its possible to maturbate involuntarily -- Posted by davidbaldwin at 5:03 pm on July 3, 2008 i didn't think so either, but i'll wake up either durring the fact or after the fact. peace Pages: 1 2  Next