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-- Posted by superniko at 3:50 pm on May 23, 2008
Me and me brother are very different people. Our interest is almost opposite, but we've been working things out allways...until now. He is dating my best friend now and since then, we've been arguing, discussing and offending each other all the time. It's making me insane. Everbody tell me that he is the one who are wrong, when we discuss the situations between us and I tell them about us fighting. I really try to tell it from both sides and the conclusion is allways that he is the one beeing unfair.
But I don't know. Of course it's also me. But I don't think it's my fault. I hate conflicts and try to avoid them, but it's not that if something is important to discuss I neglect it. In other words I feel balanced and hate fighting just for fighting. But when we are fighting it's ALLWAYS only about: That somethings wrong with me(I'm too fat according too him, to lazy, too boring, don't do stuff the right way and so on) That my religion is wrong That my habbits are wrong That I've done wrong stuff(I can't do nothing about) some years ago and how bad it is(taking LSD for example) That I'm not able to cook(I am good at it) It drives me sick that he can't accept me for the person i am. And that he's low selfasteme makes him offending me.
He is also making fun of me in front of our mutual friends.
He hit me and we are fighting, people says it's unfair because he's so big and strong. But he just say "she is so fat anyway our weight's the same"(I'm not fat, 68)
I feel like I have to do everything right in he's company and I can't relax. I can't even say a wrong word without him attacking me, telling me my kids' going to have a fucked up language. And I'm very good in school and his can't spell... What do you think, what's wrong with him, is something wrong with me or what? I really wish that this could stop. Me relationship to my best friend haven't changed. -A broken sister
-- Posted by Reconciliation at 3:52 pm on May 23, 2008
i know this will be deleted, but just smack some sense into him
-- Posted by La Motta at 3:52 pm on May 23, 2008
I have a prick for a brother too!!
Ignore him.
That's my new plan for my brother, I hate talking to him.
-- Posted by NushikuroNishiama at 3:52 pm on May 23, 2008
Hit him!!
-- Posted by daniellamarie29 at 3:53 pm on May 23, 2008
try and get your best friend to talk to him to make him stop.
That's harsh.
-- Posted by HatesYou at 3:55 pm on May 23, 2008
just ignore him
-- Posted by superniko at 4:01 pm on May 23, 2008
My best friend is completely in love with him so I can't really go trough her. And we have lots of the same friends so he's hard to ignore. Basicly I need to have a talk with him about this, but I don't think he really understand that he is hurting me. Especially when he gets psychical it's uncomftable, of cause it's only for fun, but theres no way I can ever win. And I don't really think it's that fun.
Maybee he really wished to have a small brother instead and not a vegetarian spiritualist, but we have two other brothers, he can push and get physical with, so why me? Because it's easy?
-- Posted by lsd at 4:04 pm on May 23, 2008
Err, do you have feelings for your brother? Do you think he has any for you?
-- Posted by superniko at 4:13 pm on May 23, 2008
Before all this crap I would say that I actually loved him. Our parents are dead, so I felt that we were close and shared something special. But now it's so uncomftable beeing around him. Inever miss him like before, I don't share my thoughts, hopes and dream with him the same way anymore. I'm shocked to realize that our relationship was that weak. And I doubt it will be the same again. He had a difficult life and I'm not sure if he can really have deep emotions to anyone, but I think he likes me in the same way you like your friends
-- Posted by superniko at 4:34 pm on May 23, 2008
Thanx everyone, you just made me realize that my broter is an idiot. It's probably also me but mostly him I guess
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