-- Posted by tenchi1084 at 3:33 pm on June 2, 2008 I really like my room mate, and I know it's too early to call things love(it's only been about a week since we've moved in together...2 months since I met him).   I want to prove that I am a trustworthy person and a very monogamous male.  I'd have (and do have) eyes for him and him only.  everyone else just looks like a human..which we all are, but less attractive than my room mate. He's super intelligent too.  he knows all sorts of physics, and even explains things I don't know in very wonderful details.  I just want to tell him. it sucks though, because we've only lived together for about a week...and I don't want to seem like I'm rushing.   How would I ask him the hard to ask questions(he's gay too btw)?  I mean, I want to know about his favorite foods, favorite films, what annoys him, what makes him smile(I know that much already, though)....I don't want to lose him as a friend at least, so I just don't want to ask and say the wrong thing. -- Posted by Dragon22876 at 3:35 pm on June 2, 2008 Try and say, lets play a question game or something. -- Posted by igotaquestion at 3:35 pm on June 2, 2008 Does he know you are? If not then you could bring it up by telling him first. I would advise that it is best for you to just ask him even though there is a possibility that he may take it as an insult. -- Posted by laxgoalie1 at 3:36 pm on June 2, 2008 ask to play 20 questions...or less if thats too much...and then u can ask serious and silly questions -- Posted by Moridin at 7:00 pm on June 4, 2008 work it into the conversation. "I had the most disgusting food today, it was [blank]. It tasted like old sewage. I wish I could get some nice piece of [your favorite food]. That would be so nice. What kind of foods do you like?"