-- Posted by nmead1538 at 7:40 pm on June 3, 2008 my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half. We are supposed to go to NY where he is from in a few weeks and he said that if things dont go well he's going to break up with me. He talks about getting married and acts like we will always be together yet he always tells me to dump him when i get mad at him. He constantly yells at me for talking too loud in public and says i embarrass him. He is so afraid of what others think that he is afraid to goof off ever. THe last time we went to NY we went to a yankees game and he yelled at me because I "wasnt enjoying it" and was "ruining it for him". Well, i was hot and baseball isnt my thing but i went because i knew he wanted me to be there with him. I was fine though. But he just kept yelling at me and finally blew up at me. Then he yelled at me for almost crying because his grandmother was making comments about how I looked unhappy. Anyone would look unhappy if their boyfriend said he wished he hadnt brought you and wanted to dump you. Anyway, he felt like shit afterwards, as he should but im afraid its going to happen again. I told him that if he pulled that shit again id be dumping his ass. I just dont know exactly what im supposed to do because I dont do anything to ruin things, but he yells at me all the time for doing absolutely nothing wrong. THen he gets mad at me for being upset. I feel so much pressure about this whole NY thing. Im wondering if I should just break up with him. -- Posted by HatesYou at 7:41 pm on June 3, 2008 go for it. if not just tell him to fuck off and accept you. -- Posted by silverrose42 at 7:41 pm on June 3, 2008 He's being inconsistant, and I think that you should just dump him if he's expecting that much out of him... -- Posted by mrmartyr at 7:42 pm on June 3, 2008 Yeah, dump him. I think it's just time to move on. -- Posted by alastrxxna at 7:43 pm on June 3, 2008 Well if hes paying for the NY thing for do that, and then dump him. ^.^ -- Posted by Scoobydoo24 at 7:45 pm on June 3, 2008 If he does that then don't take that you don't deserve that you deserve better and It's not right for doing that if he does that again slap him in that face and then dump and walk away. that's what I would do and I deal with that all the time. -- Posted by VampElla at 7:45 pm on June 3, 2008 I say.. leave him.. because you can already see what he is like now.. imagine what will happen when you guys get married and all... he will only get worse.. seeing that fact he gets made over small things...i say leave him you can do WAY better -- Posted by nmead1538 at 7:48 pm on June 3, 2008 actually, i have slapped him across the face....and it felt good! -- Posted by pancakequeen at 7:53 pm on June 3, 2008 he sounds like such an asshole, dump him, u dont deserve it. -- Posted by Tom Chou at 8:01 pm on June 3, 2008 just yell back and dump him -- Posted by Rabbit4U at 7:26 pm on June 4, 2008 Get rid of that loser, NOW