-- Posted by Anonymous at 1:35 pm on June 4, 2008 i cant get  a errection for my girlfriend. it is stressing me out as she doesnt think that i find her attractive.....please help... SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY. -- Posted by rufoo at 9:55 pm on June 4, 2008 1 Word : Viagra What is wrong with your errection? Is it that you cant get an errection because you arent turned on? Or it wont physically just .. go hard? If its because you arent turned on, then that means well, you somewhat or maybe like a different sex or none. Physically going hard? How bout try stroking it. Get her to give you a blowjob. some guys could get hard as a rock just by looking at someone. But some guys need some fondling/foreplay/"appetizer" before they can actually get to the sex. But as I say again : Viagra -- Posted by nikki at 6:50 am on June 5, 2008 I'd suggest foreplay. A lot of guys find it difficult to get hard straight away, so don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. Try playing with each other before you have sex - get her to play with you whilst you play with her, for example, or you could try the '69 position, where you both give each other oral sex at the same time. Once you've got an erection, I'd suggest you try getting some condoms that will help you stay hard - you can get them from pretty much any drugstore. Also, try not to worry about keeping your erection. If you're constantly worrying and thinking that it'll go wrong, your nerves will probably make you go soft again. I hope that helps!